Coming out of a 10 years, the thought of long term really scares me… but sometimes I am little worried about dying alone…. Or maybe idk 🤷‍♀️

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Love yourself first. Other people are a bonus,

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Just to clarify- I m actually very happy to just be by myself… but just don’t want to be the weirdo in the eyes of others

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D1 no.. I went through enough to know not judge books by the covers. Not everyone is happily married, majority of time relationship is hard work.
Alone but peaceful is better than feeling lonely with someone else

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Therapy. Read books on person growth. The above is not a real dichotomy.

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Yea - I personally experience been abandoned at the time of need/being devastated

And now I rather hangout with girls than any dudes

Almost everyone dies alone unless you’re in a mass casualty event.

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