Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

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Not me but two of my coworkers met boyfriend/fiancé at work. One met her bf randomly at a wedding and after talking it turned out they worked at the same company. I’m still waiting on mine…

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I feel like guys are so scared they will ruin their career

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