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Men across the board have become disenchanted by women and dating

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The dating apps are filled with men in their 50’s “ not looking for anything serious “ I don’t think 30 years ago that was the thinking of men that age, something has shifted for sure.

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Right here ladies. No need for an app. .

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I think some men have become disenchanted with women; however, what I’m finding is that part of the reason for this is due to high expectations and previous harms from women in the past. Many women have the same problem in that there’s an assumption that once a man treats you like yesterday’s newspaper, all men from here on out will do the exact same thing. It’s not so; however, once you meet a new person, due to previous heartbreaks, you’re automatically guarded.

I believe that honesty up front is important. Some psychologists have suggested that there should be some level of mystery in a relationship; but when you’ve been hurt a lot, you want to know that the person you’re interested in is genuinely interested in you - all of you (faults, baggage, education and family). No secrets; nothing to hide. That’s not easy. It takes prayer!

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Emotionally intelligent answer. You single and a male? DM me lol

36/F/Dallas

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Men are increasingly checking out of dating for sure. All the single events I've been to are 90% women.

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Um obviously not in Utah or i'd be there . I've been trying to find a date or a girlfriend but no luck Utah is not a dating place it sucks

Men are dating themselves more 🤷🏾‍♀️

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44M and the OP applies to me. Going to be awhile (if ever) before I go back on an app or put forth any other type of effort into dating.

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Nooooo. Why? What did that witch do to you? 🤣. We are not all the same. Haha. Didn’t mean to insult her. I’m sure she’s wonderful.. or not. Haha.

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Very much agree yes

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Yep agree 100%

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Nope totally disagree cause I am enchanted and love dating among whatever happens happens

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World is full of 30yr old with commitment issues 😂😂 they will do everything except hitting that therapy ssssions

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