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My old manager would drink at every single client lunch. She wasn’t one to get buzzed very quickly, so I’m not sure it made a negative impact on any relationships. Just kind of something she always did. I personally don’t just because I never drink.
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I get that - everyone has their own approach. Sounds like your manager had it under control, but I totally relate to skipping it if you don’t drink at all.
I'd never do it, but I barely drink these days anyway. I suppose it's not a problem as long as someone isn't impaired when they get back to work. But I suppose it would very much depend on the culture of the organization one works for, not to mention the role. If I had a drink in the day I think I'd be functionally useless, I feel like I'd be making mistakes in my work.
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I get that - daytime drinks definitely hit harder when you’re expected to get back to work.
Be aware of your company policies. Some prohibit it, some leave more of a grey area. If there is peer pressure, that’s actually when I’d drag my heels and decline. If you follow the client's lead of your own accord, that’s different. The safe answer is not to drink, but there are different scenarios out there.
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That’s a really balanced way to look at it. Policies, culture, and intent all matter!
It really depends on the company culture and the context. I’ve had client lunches where ordering a drink was totally normal and even helped break the ice, but I’ve also worked at places where it would’ve been a big no-no. When I’m unsure, I just follow the lead of whoever’s hosting. Curious: Do you feel comfortable doing it?
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I feel the same - it really depends on the culture. Personally, I’m usually more comfortable not ordering a drink unless the client brings it up first. It feels safer to take the lead from them.
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Personally, I cannot see the harm in it, as long as it is allowed within your company. Making sure nobody is going crazy, and it is only one or two, I don't see the issue. Personally I wouldn't as I am not a huge drinker, but a lot of people where I work do and it's never an issue!
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That makes sense. I think keeping it moderate and following company norms is key. It’s nice when a little drink can help ease the conversation without causing any issues.
I never have. I’d let the client set the tone and if they happened to order a bottle of wine I’m sure I’d have some, but it never happened. Only at dinners / after work drinks.