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Ghosted for sure
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Lol well yes and most of the women that have reached out here were married or engaged 🤷🏻♂️🤣
But I do have a story.
Out of a very casual group conversation here a woman DM’d me, appreciating my response. In a completely organic way, with no intent or expectation on my part (and I think her too) we fell into a DM conversation, honestly innocent and beautiful, I have re-read those first exchanges many times and it’s wonderful to see the gravitational forces bringing those two people together.
It became VERY intimate very quickly, taking us both by surprise by the speed and intensity and beauty. It deepened over days, and finally she said she was married (but obviously not going well). I didn’t care, she had become and amazing friend and 2000-mile apart lover. It’s funny but it became one of the most nourishing relationships I ever had and I think her too, we marveled over that. Eventually we starting talking live, eventually had a run of talking every day for 6 months! She was fabulous (is) and I do believe we BOTH got a lot out of our, transparency, honesty. She said it was a rare situation where she could fully be herself.
As for me well I felt trapped in my own situation, been long-term in a ENM marriage with a number of approved outside friends, and obviously this wasn’t great from my end, however funny she was in her own complicated situation.
We eventually met a year later, a few times, some of my best times but maybe by then she was just curious to meet me. I felt these moments deepened our relationship but I realized she was pulling away.
She NEEDED to do that, work on new long term LOCAL relationships as she got divorced.
She increasingly pulled away and it’s been almost 2 years since we spoke live though she said she was up to catch up.
I am grateful for every second. It was the right thing to move on, but I miss her tremendously and think of her 10++++ times a day, every possible trigger in play.
How are we even justifying sleeping with someone while you are still married?
Yes and most of the guys on here that have reached out are married.
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I think the make or break is when they see what the other person looks like .
Yeah, physical attraction is likely a big factor behind some ghosting. And some folks get cold feet. It can be a bit intimidating meeting someone on an app like this. It happens. Doesn’t make it right, but it happens. Better to be upfront if you don’t think the person is what you’re looking for, even if it seems, feels, or is shallow.
Ghosted - exchanged messages, switched to text, made plans, he said he was cooking dinner and never wrote again 🙄
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Story timeeeeeeee
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Seems like everyone responds are F. This is weird 😂
I was ghosted, emotionally manipulated, and led to believe I was essential to their life—only to be blocked and discarded without warning.
So sorry ro hear about that. Send me a dm and let's connect. Promise I won't ghost you 🤞
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Ghosted - had an amazing connection. Started talking about meeting up and poof - disappeared.
I’m available. 40 M. 5 11. Fit.
Not on this bowl, but I have ghosted by the same guy 3 different times! 😂