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As a 2nd born, this is definitely a true statement.

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First-born vehemently agreeing lol. The thing is is that this reality goes unrealized, and that’s because the Firsters have been-there-done-that enough to be able to anticipate and cover for your every dumb move.

You’re welcome, ungrateful little turds. 🤣

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I’m sorry, for lack of better term or feeling, to hear that! Being the first, I always felt it was incumbent upon me, but most of all, just instinct, to *manage* the little - now littles 😆.

Don’t get me wrong, there wasn’t/would never be a scenario when I did or would not acknowledge or accept that I was out of my depth, purview, or role. I will call your parents, grandparents, whoever I need to without a moment’s hesitation and without a second thought.

As a parent of 2, this is accurate.

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Trouble for whom? what?

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As a second born, this is apparently true!

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2nd born is the easier in our home

As a second born, that is probably the case within my family of origin. Anyone have insight on whether this is a nature…. or a nurture thing?

What if you are moms first born but dads second born child? 🤔

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