For those that had taken parental leave after the birth of a child, how realistic is it to stick to a personal schedule? For example, exercise, productive work, rest, etc.

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Depends on time. If you just had the baby, there is no schedule. Your main focus the first 3 months is eat, sleep and recover. If you’re unable or don’t want to change these things (giving up the gym, sleeping 8 hrs/night) at least the first year, then kids aren’t for you. Having a supportive partner helps but realistically every single thing changes.

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You truly can’t comprehend how different your life will be. It’s the only thing I’ve ever done that requires 24/7 of me. Sick? Haven’t slept in months? Deadlines at work? House is a wreck? Getting fat? The kids don’t suddenly become self sufficient you are still on the clock.
All that said it’s amazing and even after the first one we went back and gladly did it again and again, you just have to be ok with the fact that for the first few months/years it’s all consuming.

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As long as your kid agrees to stick to their schedule too you should be ok

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