Guy I got setup with from a matchmaker (I was on the free database lol, this service costs like $30k+) wants me to meet him for a second date in Beverly Hills, where he lives. I live an hour away. He’d send a car, but idk it gives unserious and want-to-hookup vibes. Thoughts?

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Sugar daddy services usually work like that

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If they’re paying $30k for access to you, and you’re on the “free database” then you’re not the customer. You’re the product. Please tell me you’re at least meeting them in a public place and you’ve phone screened them first.

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Should he go pick you up and then drive you to his area? Then drive you home after, then drive himself back? That’s 4 hours of driving. Time is money!

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Maybe he’s just rich and this is how he treats his dates? Sounds like a potential good catch. Not enough clarity on this to assume hookup intentions and you don’t owe him anything by accepting the ride. I’d go just to see.

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As long as it’s not at his house, that seems incredibly reasonable. He knows the places to take you near his home, not in some random town halfway between.

He’s rich so presuming he works and isn’t just a useless pile of generational wealth he’s probably busy and wants to see you again.

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First date we met in the middle, also sent a car

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What do you have to lose?

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You do you

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Dang what’s this matchmaker service because I could use a match like this

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where do I sign up 😬

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Isn’t this how the beginning of Hollywood sex mansion slave stories start? “Oh I’ll send a car. Meet me at a house for a party. Knock 3 times, then once, then three times and then yell garuzel-thurin and security will let you in. Feel free to have any drink you like and I’ll come meet you in the foyer”

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Do a zoom call first

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Checkout / retro on how the date went?

I was applying to the OP pre date obv

At some point you’re gonna have to have dates close to where one of you lives. Can’t always be in-between.

To clarify, the second date isn’t at his place, right? That would give unserious vibes. Otherwise could just mean he’s got something specific in mind in terms of the date.

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Sugar daddy vibes.

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Ask if he has a drivers license

Is he 80?

You have the power to say no.

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