Hey all,
I've noticed something and wanted to share — not to generalize or offend, but just to open up a conversation.
Guy sees a post, puts genuine effort to reach out, tries to start a conversation.
Girl replies are one liner, honestly, in most cases, it felt like a one-way effort as if the guy is texting into a wall and just gets replies.

Now, I understand not every message will click, and preferences differ,
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but if someone has taken the step to genuinely approach — isn't mutual curiosity and effort the bare minimum?

Treating any guy who texts you like he's a call center agent… what exactly ia happening?
I mean, if this is how it’s going to be, maybe we should just rename the group:
"Women Looking for Groom – But Please Don’t expect us to talk"
Or
Looking for Groom, But Emotionally Logged Out

Being independent is amazing. Being mature is sexy.
that shouldn't come at the cost of being emotionally unavailable or uninterested in basic conversation That’s just… elite level cringe.
Barbarous (uncivilized)

Anyway, if you’re a women someone who believes interest goes both ways — thisnpost or comment is not for you.

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Man you are taking it very seriously. Don't complicate the things. If the person deserves to have a conversation with you, they will definitely find a way. Those who don't respond to your messages don't deserve your attention either. Don't get disparate to establish conversation with such useless people and move on in life.

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I agree a hundred percent! @LTI

Are bro.. ladki log ko din me bahut message aate h.. bahut attention milti h.. so if she likes you then only she will talk in good terms.. dont waste time.. work on your self

I believe there’s a fundamental misunderstanding here.You are talking in a terms of deserving.

The idea of “deserving” applies in contexts where a connection or relationship already exists between two individuals. However, offering a genuine response to a post—especially in the context of seeking companionship—is quite different.

Advising someone to “work on yourself” in such a context seems misplaced. This isn't a matter of career development or personal improvement ;
it's about meaningful interaction and openness in connecting with others who are similarly seeking partners.

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