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How have you gotten better at speaking up and advocating for yourself? I still really struggle with this and often feel like I'm being too aggressive.

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I think it's better to be thought of as too aggressive than to be a people pleaser. I would keep trying to be empathetic and compassionate, but don't beat yourself up for being straightforward or knowing what you want/need.

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Agreed, I used to hold back but now that I'm in a more senior role, I'm just owning it. I still get anxiety every now and then but you just gotta fight through it...not always easy but that's what therapy is for lol

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Yes. Honestly, its trial and error. The more you do it, the better you get. Eventually you get to a point where you just don't want to take crap from anyone.

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Oh, yeah, absolutely. I've been told that I'm bossy. But you know what? I don't care. I'd rather be bossy than get nothing done and have people trample all over me.

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I just had my review and one of the areas my managers wants me to work on is saying yes more!! I couldn’t believe it.

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i feel sometimes like i’m saying “no” a lot… but no one else is pointing out the terrible ideas or unrealistic plans… so i guess i try to be more like “that doesn’t seem like it will work, what if we did xyz” 🤷‍♀️

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anyone suggest some good PG for men near deloitte Hyd office.

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Quick qstn - I'm receiving HRA of 24075 from my employer but I would like dhow the rent paid as 96k p.a (while filing ITR). Even if I do so, I was only able to get exemption of 24075 from gross. Checking if we can speak to payroll department to increase Actual HRA since I'm actually paying more rent than compared. Will I be able to do so ?Deloitte Newco EY Accenture Genpact KPMG

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Just got Offer letter and joining on 16th Aug.
What are the next steps i am from Delhi and have to come Hyderabad.
Does Deloitte will send the tickets and stuff?
And what about relocation bonus.
Please guide.

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Anyone transferred from USI to US?

Do they adjust the salary post transfer to be equal to US standards, is there a chance for negotiations or do we just have to accept what they give us?

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Is the Citi gold bonus offer of $1.5k worth the hassle of opening a new account and transferring $200k?

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Hi Guys,

Can anyone refer me to BCG

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Anyone here at Mck / (Implementation specifically)? I’m interested in an open Mck implementation role and would like to have a quick chat. Cheers

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Think about your current situation. For example, what are you spending time on that is outside of your control?

- Are you trying to change someone's behavior/belief?
- Are you forcing someone to like you?
- Are you breaking someone's pattern abruptly?

Focus on making yourself better and what you feel you can control.

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IT Audit staff position available in Denver. DM me if interested

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Hey fishes! I'm Looking for a refferal for UI/UX designer role.
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I am only 4 months into being a surgical coordinator. I love the position itself however I am struggling to adapt into my new work environment. My position puts me in a place where I need to interact with my new coworkers but they are not as welcoming as I expected. There is also another surgical coordinator however I have come to find from other staff that there is a long history of her running other staff away and not fully training other surgical coordinator staff properly. Any suggestions?

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I am working for a client in infosys and the project is in initial stage and the go live is somewhere in January.

Now the thing is this project has lot of toxic people from client team and they play blame games on daily basis.

I am working as a team lead here and want to get deallocated from this project.

Please help me with right approach and save my soul.

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It’s funny because it’s true…

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How gender diverse is your recruitment pipeline? Have been observing a year-on-year decline in female candidates as a % of total candidates. Recent few years have been in the low to mid 30s. Interested to see how other firms are going.

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While accepting offer in Wipro my friend directly clicked accept and submitted after reading all the pages. But didn't fill the signature and date column in all sheet since text was not enabled. At bottom of every page in offer letter it shows as signed by user name ,user email address & date when she signed. Could anyone please confirm if this is fine or not ? Do we need to fill signature and date also above because she couldn't do anything now. Is this offer letter valid now?

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I missed a deadline of a mandatory training and now am full of anxiety that there will be some disciplinary action during year end review. What exactly will happen?

It is written zero tolerance in the goal sheet😥

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I’m so honored and excited to offer 5 complimentary, one-on-one, 60 minute career breakthrough sessions to the over responsible organizational development professional who is ready to stop chasing permission, perfection and people pleasing and identify what they want and how to get it. Let me know if your interested. It’ll be fun and informative. I can’t wait to support you in up-leveling your career!

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I'm thinking about cutting off my beard.

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How have you gotten better at speaking up and advocating for yourself? I still really struggle with this and often feel like I'm being too aggressive.

I think it's better to be thought of as too aggressive than to be a people pleaser. I would keep trying to be empathetic and compassionate, but don't beat yourself up for being straightforward or knowing what you want/need.

Agreed, I used to hold back but now that I'm in a more senior role, I'm just owning it. I still get anxiety every now and then but you just gotta fight through it...not always easy but that's what therapy is for lol

Yes. Honestly, its trial and error. The more you do it, the better you get. Eventually you get to a point where you just don't want to take crap from anyone.

Oh, yeah, absolutely. I've been told that I'm bossy. But you know what? I don't care. I'd rather be bossy than get nothing done and have people trample all over me.

I just had my review and one of the areas my managers wants me to work on is saying yes more!! I couldn’t believe it.

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