How to stop comparing yourself with your teammate, especially from a salary POV?
I started my current job after my MS & have been here for over 4 years. But, I still haven't become a senior engineer. My first three years were okay but last year, I worked super hard & got a pretty good year-end review (5/5). However, they still didn't give me a good raise. To make things worse, I found out that my teammate who started two years ago with a similar story makes 50% more.
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First off, I want to say I was in a similar situation for almost a decade. Over time things will get better. There is hope. Don’t lose heart.

It is one of two things:

1. They understand you can’t leave. So, they are prioritizing other folks who are a flight risk for better raises.

2. Your contributions aren’t as valuable as you think, even though you worked very hard.

If it is 1 above, your best path forward is to see if you can get a Visa sponsorship from another company and move on.

If it is 2 above, you may benefit from turning the conversation with your manager to “how you can add more value” vs. how underpaid you are.

If you keep looking at levels data and talking to people about how much they make, you will be miserable. Just don’t do that for a bit.

Good luck.

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