Anyone stuck in an unhappy marriage? How do you deal with loneliness of this profession and complicated family life

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

I grew up in a small Texas town. The dudes from school are mostly married. I moved back here til the Rona settled down. But the remaining unmarried feel that since I am also unmarried (F) - we must surely be destiny. Omg save me! I can’t...

Has the overturning of Roe v. Wade significantly impacted anyone's relationships? I lost two friends who were pro-life and on the verge of losing another. Wondering if I'm being too rigid in my perspective or if this is normal in Texas

I want to give a Christmas gift to the manager of the gym I go to. She’s awesome and I just really appreciate her. I can’t think of any ideas though! Can anybody think any good ones? I do not know much about her personal life except that she’s a single mother.

is it wrong or normal to re-develop feelings for someone you liked in the past but currently are happy and committed to someone else? I think it’s normal but 100% hurts your s/o?

Anyone know any good divorce lawyers in NYC?
Thanks in advance 🙇🏾‍♀️

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

I was reading a post in another group that asked how folks were celebrating Diwali outside of India and 2 people mentioned that their whole street (in the US) exchanged sweets, put up lights, and pitched in for a community firecrackers permit. This had me wondering if this happened in the US for Eid as well in cites where there is a big Muslim population. Also, how do you all celebrate Eid? For folks who are grew up in the west, is there anything you plan on doing differently with your kids?

Female 🐠 - if your husband has mostly non-muslim friends, is that a problem?

Haven’t seen bf in over 3 months due to COVID. Lately, he’s been pushing to see me but I don’t feel comfortable because he hasn’t been quarantining. He makes it sound like if I’m not willing to go see him might as well breakup. Any advice?

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

Has anyone successfully pursued a relationship with someone they met at work? An MD I am really attracted to has been chasing me, but I am nervous about what the repercussions could be if it doesn't work out. Still, it's tempting

Almost 18 weeks pregnant with no end in sight for fatigue and nausea. This week, my brain has added the stress of who will watch my toddler while I go into labor. Husband I have no family nearby and don’t want them to fly out and come stay with us either. What’s everyone else in similar situations doing?

I need 11 L to connect with friends.plz help me to get that

Secretly glad October is coming to a close. I have two friends doing "Sober October" and I love them but it's insufferable. They keep saying things like "Ugh this is so hard, I don't know how you ...

Out of curiosity, have people in your firms reached out to colleagues with family in India to see if they are okay/how they can help? Feel so stressed thinking about my family there but feel awkward bringing it up at work since no one has mentioned it.

I am trying to write a stock letter to send to parents everyday that their child does not come to virtual learning sessions. I have been told by administration that even though I have spoken to parents and know why students are not coming to zoom classes, that we still need to contact them everytime they dont come. For some of my students this is everyday due to parent work schedules and disability issues.
Is anyone else having this trouble? What are you saying to parents to cover yourself?

Friends are ignoring me after they got promoted and I didn't. Really didn't think I would see this day :( How should I handle this?

My fiancé will NOT stop talking about her ex. After I found out they were texting arguing she justified it by saying it was about the dogs and not them. Even though Her social media is full of his pics. She still sends him $50 a month for dog food, still goes to work right by his place and suspiciously needs keys. I try to bring it up and I get dismantled for being too mean and making “false accusations.” How much more obvious can it be?

I can’t wait for the day when I don’t have to deal with data cleaning.

Any book recommendations that are must reads/made a significant impact on you?

What are chances of EY GDS retaining me after producing counter offer with 7 Lakhs higher than my current salary at EY?

Hey Guys,

Just got off a call with Counselor. Got Differentiating with Progression to Senior 2
Is there any hike for Progression and how much will be the VPB

SL: Tech Consulting

TIA

Salary pay slip is ready in the portal but salary not received 😂

UI (React) / MERN stack with 9 years of experience. What is the upper range CTC one can get in
1. Bangalore
2. Pune

Assuming current is around 30

I feel like 80% of my job is producing. Is this normal, or am I just working with shitty producers?

Pause. Breathe. Proceed.
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Does Big4 have AMS (Application Management Service) seevice lines. Does Partner comp / targets differ for AMS vs rest of the service lines?

ZSer’s based in Princeton. Where do most of you live and are you looking for a roommate? Moving there this fall, 22M

I'm an A1 and want to move to industry. would anyone be able to provide a referral to Salesforce or Slalom? I'm looking at a couple non-client facing roles there

Does anyone feel that the Oil and Gas industry is the most discriminatory industry of all? They won’t even look at resume without O&G experience! It does not make sense to me as I would rather teach someone the specifics of an industry if they were a good fit. And for an industry that has so many obstacles from Government, Environmental Organizations and so on, why they are adding more bad publicity to themselves is not a great approach.

Does anyone know what the paternity leave allowance is for UKI? Regardless of what Shared Parental Leave. Just paternity leave only? I read on some policy its 2 weeks? Is this true? Mothers get 9months full pay and dads only 2 weeks? Can someone who has recently taken pat leave confirm please?

What puzzles do people generally get as a question in senior data analyst role interviews ?

Finally got over my fear of timing the market vs time in the market. Finally bought some voo and qqq today and plan to DCA the rest. Thanks guys!

I am 34/f pakistani widow with kids...why are desi guys scared of marrying widows and women with kids?

TopGun Maverick 🔥🔥

Will Deloitte withdraw my approved i140 if I switched to a different company? Has anyone done that here? Need insights. Thanks fam

Desi Fam,

Does anyone use Indian sim outside of India for otp and authentication purpose ?

If yes, which service provider and plan is the best ?

TIA

H1B visa on passport says it expires in Aug-18 but firm immigration says my max-out date is in Dec-18. What is the process to get the actual visa expiry date extended?

H1B 🐟 - If alt traveling on fridays, which city do you charge your time to? My visa doesn’t technically allow me to work in the city that I am alt traveling to.

What does “bhakt” mean?

Which trading platforms do you use in India??
As a NRI, how do you guys plan your investments?

I'm 6 months old at D! Planning early promotion next year.. counselor and pm both are backing me.. I need to go to India for at least 4 weeks in Dec ... most probably would be rolling off from current project by then .. would this vacation hurt my promotion chances coz of utilization etc?

Desi girls: which brand has the most premium in India for a gift: Kate Spade, Coach or Michael Kors??

Any fishes here who are Indian citizens and applied for OCI card for foreign (US) citizen spouse recently? Can i message you to clarify a few questions?

Any F 🐠 want to get dinner and drinks in Atlanta tonight ? 28 M here

Anyone tried hexclad griddle pan for dosas? Is it worth it?

Any recent H1B extensions approved in premium ?

Question from Indian 🐠s here. How do you feel about the Quantico controversy? I have never watched the show, neither a fan of the actress. As a Pakistani Muslim, I have seen Pakistani American...

Anyone from Huron on the group? I see booming Oracle Cloud things on there, want to know more - Risk and Controls guy from PwC.

Why is everyone here so triggered by the White Tiger? That’s how the majority of India lives, please get outside your white collar bubbles. And stop saying “the media always shows poverty”, they also released shows like Bollywood Wives and Indian Matchmaking.

Any lgbtq desi consultants want to connect offline ? I am struggling to make friends in the desi circle with similar mindsets / challenges. Single indian gay male here:)