I am 3 mo pregnant and starting a new job this week. My new employer doesn’t know I am pregnant. I didn’t tell them because was afraid they will hold it against me. Needed to change a job very badly, as my previous job ( was there just for 6mo) was extremely toxic & my probational period didn’t go well ( that never happened before). Can my new employer (gov org) fire me once they see I am pregnant, if there is no performance issues? I am nervous, bc my last job was a nightmare:(

likehelpful
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Play the dumb card.

Be honest with them now, but tell them you just found out. Then, let them tell you the options for maternity leave.

likesmart

They can’t fire you. But feel like this is something that should be brought up during the interview process - they can’t not hire you because of it - but trust is an issue now at the personal level.

like

Agreed; and if it’s someone who won’t hire you because you are pregnant, probably not a good fit anyway. Most companies don’t care

They can't legally fire you for being pregnant, no, nor would they. However, check your ST disability policy. Sometimes you need to be employed for a certain number of months to claim maternity leave. Def should have asked about this while interviewing because now you might be out of any income when you do go on leave

likesmart

It’s your personal matter, your employer does not need to know if you’re pregnant.

like

Also 3 months pregnant is pretty soon to be Announcing anyways for all they know she has just found out

like

They can’t fire you for it but you have no rights to maternity leave in the U.S. You will be an absolute wreck after having a baby. You can’t just pop it out and go back to your life. Physically you are recovering from some massive internal and external wounds, your hormones are off the rails, and your baby will wake up all night long. My first was like being tortured. Every 45 minutes he woke up crying. I thought I was going to die. I went back after 12 weeks, which is longer than you can hope for, and it was very, very hard. I had to take medical leave within the year because I was breaking down. I was in public accounting at the time, which did heavily contribute, but I have PTSD thinking back on that time.

like

I hope they don't. One of my close friends was pregnant when she started at a public accounting firm and she was not fired when they heard. She even toolk the 3 months unpaid and they kept her position and all. I hope the Govt is even better.

like

I started at EY and found out I was pregnant a week after (I had no idea). I went on maternity leave, and came back like I never left. Progressed twice (right before I left, and after I came back), and I’m up for promotion next year. Partner said during comp meeting that I’m on track to get promoted. I definitely have worked hard and some long hours to make sure I “caught up” for being gone that long, but never had any issues.

helpful

Thank you everyone for the responses and your insights . I definitely thinking about telling them soon after my start date, which is next week. …. and about maternity leave … even if I am not eligible for it, it is better to live on reduced income for 3 mo then not to have a job at all. Fingers crossed!

like

Just pretend that you found out now.. focus on work but let them know in advance about maternity leave.

like

You cannot be fired. Tell your manager when you are starting to show the pregnancy, for some people it is 4 months, for others it is 6-7 months. Don't worry about it. Focus on enjoying your pregnancy.

Related Posts

Someone looking for a Senior Strat Director / GSD ? Looking to relocate

like

Does anyone know any shortcuts for the “Refresh All” button without having to always click Data->Refresh All every time I want to refresh the live data? For a Mac btw pls thanks!

Post Photo
like

Best cold water dive experience?

Hi folks,
I have a question related to PF online account. If we move to a company that has PF trust, can we see the PF gathered from that company in the EPFO portal?
Can some one help me understand this?
Thanks in advance.

like

Anyone here at Nunwood?

There's a ton of self help and leadership books out there to help people in their careers. If there was one that was written front the lense of a public accounting, would you read it?

likehelpful

What positions would benefit from being fluent in Spanish? Are there positions in an agency that would look for people that are bilingual?

like

Just a floofy boy, watching the leaves fall

Post Photo
like

Is it true that restructuring/turnaround engagements can get very hostile given the type of work this industry is in (distressed)? Management not being cooperative, overall environment very depressing, internal politics, fraud, management not being cooperative, pressure to deliver quickly, debtor/creditors screaming at each other, etc. Understand this may vary project to project, but is this common?

Am currently not in restructuring but am looking to enter in the future.

Wavering between tired and happy. Finally getting my stamina back post covid. I've walked 10 miles in the past week. Pre covid I was walking between 2 and 4 miles a day. But I can tell I'm still not 100 percent. I'm so tired in the evenings. Hopefully that will fade the next couple of weeks.

like

Really struggling with attrition right now and we seem to be a cycle of countering people, trying to keep governance but being reactive! Any ideas on a reward strategy which enables us to be flexible when we need it but retain a degree of control so it doesn’t get out of control?

like

Hello All, my joining date needs to be extended by 5 days in JPMC and HR said in call that no revised offer letter based on new joining date will be issued and new joining date confirmation will be somewhat communicated prior to 3 days of onboarding.
However he mentioned he will reply back with a confirmation email on top of the email which I have sent requesting for revised joining date.
Do you see any risk of offer cancellation/revocation here?

like

Why is Latham’s website so ugly?

likefunny

Does your firm let you take 28-30 December off? Many of my team members won’t be working those days and I decided last minute that I’d like to travel somewhere between Christmas and the New Year.

likehelpful

As majority of the organisations has asked their employees back to office which is hybrid mode in most cases. I would like to know, Which companies are providing complete work from home?

Any Boston folks?

like

Chicago media agency people - what’s your company’s current RTO policy?

I’ll start:

Spark - 2 days a week mandatory in office this year, 3 days mandatory in office next year.

like

Anyone working as an LVN in Wyoming ? Trying to see what the usual hourly wage is supposed to be out here. I’m currently in Sheridan, Wyoming

like

Any Marriott/Hyatt recommendations for Mexico City? First time there as a tourist and want a nice, convenient hotel for food + sight seeing. TIA!

Planning to buy my fiancé a first luxury watch for a wedding gift. Budget of about 3k. Any suggestions? Additionally, how does one find a used watch dealer in NY if I am looking for something secondhand? Thank you!

like

Additional Posts in Accounting

Would PwC reimburse me if I study for my CFE and it is not required for my current job?

like

Anyone here work with American Cancer Society? How is it?

likesmart

Anyone work for Schellman in the NY metro area. Want to know what’s it’s like in terms of work load, client base and travel. Thanks!

like

When you tie out all the numbers after working 80 hours this week.

Post Photo
like

Good bar spots around 345 park (KPMG) lol

like

I’m in real estate tax group and looking for good books about RE fund/investments/accounting during non busy season. Any recommendations? Thanks!

Exit opportunities for two years financial services?

like

Does anyone have experience or know of someone who went on a FWA (part-time) but didn't have kids? I'm unmarried and no kids but considering a move to 30 or so hrs/week for my sanity.

like

Anyone have their CFE? Just wondering what you have done or plan to do with it and what the test was like.

like

Anyone have any good book recommendations around building passive income sources/building wealth?

like

There's a ton of self help and leadership books out there to help people in their careers. If there was one that was written front the lense of a public accounting, would you read it?

likehelpful

When is the best time to leave and go to another big4? I am at PwC and I knew the reputation they had and Some people said It may not be for me because of it. Ive been here a year and I feel as there right. My busy season is starting and I want to leave (not just because of my team) but as some of you may know getting along with the people you work with is a big part of wanting to stay at your job. I want to try to quit end of December and hoping to start a new position February.

like

Any good guidance on ifrs to gaap differences to look for when evaluating ifrs statements? More high level.

like

How much does a big 4 marketing director make in the Bay Area?

like

Anyone from EY-Parthenon, what does a typical senior consultant look like resume/experience wise? If I have audit and FDD experience as a Senior for 3 years (currently in FDD), a CPA, no MBA, is that enough to get in to EY-P? Or is the MBA basically required? What would I be missing? Thanks!

like

Are private companies easier to work at than public companies in accounting? We have such an accelerated close deadline at the publicly traded company I’m at now, I really hate the inflexible tight deadlines and analysis seems to drag on forever after that. We also close AP/AR very early in the month yet that doesn’t stop payments/receipts from happening so we’re constantly adjusting our accruals until the end of month. Do private companies start their close after the month actually ends?

like

FAANG is now MAMAA (Meta, Apple, Microsoft, Amazon and Alphabet)…Whoa Mama! As if there weren’t enough acronyms in our lives. Happy Friday All!!!

funnylike

Leaving PA for my dream school next year for a career pivot. However still have awhile before I can leave (there’s no reason to forgo a paycheck for even longer than I already have to…). I have no idea how I’ll make it through busy season without quitting on the spot 😩

like

Anyone hear talks of layoffs in Advisory? I know my office is laying off Assurance and BTS (Tax) staff but haven't heard much of Advisory yet.

like

True or false?

Post Photo
likefunny

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal