I know my partner loves me but I am pretty sure he hates me or doesn't like me. Anyone else deal with this?

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If you have any doubts your partner likes you, you need to end the relationship. I spent over a decade with a man who did not like me, was unkind, critical, insulting, etc. Then after I left I found a partner who I’ve never doubted loves and likes me. Life is too short to spend with someone who doesn’t make you feel loved and who doesn’t accept you for who you are.

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You should read: “Why does he do that? Inside the minds of angry and controlling men”

I doubt he loves you if you think he hates you.

Many men absolutely loathe their wives and partners. That’s why women cancer patients get dumped upon diagnoses so often.

The benefits run out for them and they start looking for a new model to meet whatever needs you are currently meeting for him.

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He’ll have to answer for it one of these days. Mistress wife keeps him on a very tight leash now because she knows exactly what he is capable of and I hope they bicker a lot.

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Agree with associate attorney 1. You can tell your partner how you feel and receive love. Then if they don’t make changes to make sure you feel their love as much as possible, you deserve better.

I felt how you felt with a past boyfriend and now looking back, I realize he didn’t respect me.

Now I’m with a man who thinks the world of me and makes sure I know that (even if we disagree about something or he is in a bad mood).

You deserve love and to feel love.

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PM1- Don’t speak for men. You don’t seem like you’d be someone anyone should take advice from, just saying. The men I know are nothing like you or what you represent.
Thank God!

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Suuuure Yahoo.

If you are sure he loves you, what makes you think he hates you? are you in your own bubble?

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Girl that is emotional abuse! He is trying to wear you down until you’re nothing but a shell of yourself. 9 years and you don’t live together?! No ring?!

Wont surprise me at all if he is cheating on you since he conveniently doesn’t answer his phone often.

Break up with him and block him everywhere. He is preventing you from meeting a true soulmate.

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Get into therapy. It will help you figure it all out without all the emotions attached. I wish you the very best, OP 💗

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