Ideas for cheering myself up after a failed transfer 🙃

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So sorry to hear that your transfer failed. That happened to me too. I just let myself go through the pain journey and then we continued on with the process as we chose to continue trying.

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Thanks 😞 it’s hard for me to comfort myself because I feel so empty right now. The things that would normally excite me elicit no response.

Do you have another embryo? I waited a long time to try again. If you have another embryo to try, I would try to cheer up for the next. I learned it is a numbers game and to not take it so hard. Don’t beat yourself up, just try to stay hopeful for the next one.

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D1 thank you so much - your comments honestly really helped me more than you may realize and I just really really appreciate the kind words. I love the image of the embryo cheering me on. We are starting protocol for another transfer so fingers crossed 🤞

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