I’m joining big law very soon. I’ve only worked for small/mid size law firms. I’m having imposter syndrome for the first time since I graduated law school four years ago. I know this is stupid, but how do you get out of this feeling?

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There are people who started in big law and still have imposter syndrome. Focus on doing the job you know, cultivating relationships, and increasing your skill set. A healthy amount of uncertainty is also good for being a thoughtful practitioner.

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I lateraled to BL from a much smaller firm as well…..and I had the same fears. But when you get there, you will understand that you are just as smart and accomplished as the other lawyers - that’s why they hired you. They wouldn’t bother if you weren’t qualified. Once you start working and acclimate, that feeling will subside.

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You got the job. You have skills they want. Idk if you’ll ever get “out” of this feeling bc I think it comes in waves (especially for women). You belong there!

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Reshma Saujani gave a phenomal speech about imposter syndrome that completely changed my perspective on it in 2023. I recommend it to anyone who asks this question.

Google "Bicycle Face speech" and it'll come up.

Or you can just watch it here: https://youtu.be/BoHDDgeQtlc?si=ZILm64JBX15dIbXx

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Wow. Thank you so much for sharing! This really changed my perspective too and I feel a lot better. What a great speech.

Impostor syndrome is an awful feeling. I am the person with the impressive resume, and I still feel like an impostor sometimes. You are more than qualified for this new role, which is why they went with you over all other candidates. Chin up - you’ve got this.

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I went from a 2 person law firm to big law so I have been there. I’ve been at my new firm 3.5 years and I still get imposter syndrome at times, but I think you just have to remember that of all the applicants, they chose you. They know your background but still recognized your skills and value your worth. Know that it will be a learning curve but you got this!!

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