Is it considered rude to reach out to someone you once worked with for a referral...if you haven't spoken to this person in eight years? I really need this referral but not sure how to go about it.

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Its not rude. In my opinion I think its worth the risk. Its a low downside with a high upside decision. You have nothing to lose. Go for it

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As long as you were on friendly terms with them when you worked together, I don't think so. It's obviously going to be coming out of the blue, but so what? The worst they can do is say no. The upside is worth the awkwardness.

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It’s only rude if you aren’t nice when you ask! In this job market, I’d be more than happy to provide somebody solid a referral if I was in the position to do that.

8 years! I wouldn’t. Now, if you’ve been liking their posts on LinkedIn personal or professional that’s different. Or saying congrats. But if it’s been radio silence. No! When ppl do that to me I ignore them. Also, if you have to ask your gut is already speaking. Trust your resume.

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