I’ve noticed that my energy improves when I stop mentally rehearsing worst-case scenarios. What worry is stealing energy from the present?

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I do this all the time! My brain constantly makes up the worst case scenario just to stress me out and hurt my feelings. I don’t know how to stop this. What helped you get past this yourself?

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