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A man that doesn't give up as soon as there's an inconvenience. a man that understands the ohases of a woman's cycle and how to regulate his own and your emotions around it (that being said, I strongly believe you are responsible for self-regulation but there are times you could use an understanding, warm person to help with the tougher days when hormones start messing with you) and an overall nice human being who is nice not only to you but to humankind in general. That's my two cents
My husband is genuinely a good man and a hard worker. He doesn’t make as much money as I do, but he more than makes up with how he treats me and how hard he works. What showed me he was not only the one but a rare breed was his dedication to evening our mental load. At work I have a much higher mental load and my love language is acts of service so when I wake up on my days off and see he got out of bed early to clean the house and start breakfast so I can relax into my weekend is huge. He always says “you bring 60 percent of the income and mental workload so it’s my duty to do 60% at home to help you combat that” 60/40. It’s all about if you feel he’s a good partner you can see yourself being able to grow with through life.
If you feel apprehensive, that's the universe telling you that it's not the right person/time. Don't do it. You really know when you've either met the right person, or are ready.
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If you are not ready to take the leap or apprehensive about long term feasibility, then don’t do it. All marriages take work and mutual effort/sacrifice —every partnership is different and it really boils down to both peoples needs and personal definition of what makes a marriage successful. When I met my spouse there was no doubt in my mind that they were different and that I wanted a future with them. 15 years later we are still together, there have been some rough spots, and I know we can get through anything life throws at us. This is a combination of mutual respect, support, connection, and adaptation. It works for us.