Married ladies, do any of you wear different wedding rings to work than your actual one? My fiancé bought me a beautiful showstopper, but I worry it may be a little flashy for the workplace.

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First, congratulations!

To answer your question, I actually choose my jewelry, including engagement ring and wedding ring, based on whether I feel safe wearing them in public wherever I am. Sometimes I travel places where I don't think it's a good idea to wear anything that could make me a target for theft or robbery or worse; other times I'm going somewhere I feel totally safe and will wear whatever I want. I haven't come across situations where I have factored in whether my jewelry would be flashy for the workplace based on what I do. However, if you work in a sensitive area, like you do strategy that could result in layoffs for your client or you specifically work with clients in financial distress, I probably wouldn't wear flashy jewelry.

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Thanks! I feel safe wearing it in 1st world countries and have a modest travel band for everywhere else. Maybe I’ll get a work ring 🤔

Honestly I’d just wear your ring and enjoy it!These days everyone has a 4 carat plus because of lab grown diamonds becoming so popular.

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That’s true and a good point.

Unless you work somewhere that it’s not safe to wear it, you should wear the ring!

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I’ve gained weight and my wedding and engagement ring don’t fit right now so I just wear a different ring. It gets the point across

Depending on its value, you might consider getting a zirc or moissanite dupe for your daily driver.

My toxic trait is I can’t imagine giving a fuck what anyone else thinks

Girl, wear those rings! I rarely take mine off... unless you work in a place that flashy is offensive, the whole point of engagement is to show it off and gush when asked about the proposal. Truthfully, if I could have extended our engagement period even longer I would have, for so many reasons I enjoyed that feeling even more than being married. Although that's great too (lol). I'm in my early 30s, currently in an HR/Csuite role but previously was an area manager and in/out of industrial sites all day- didn't change my rings then either! Congrats!

Wear what you like, I personally wear my real ring at work more than home, and wear silicon bands around a lot for casual wear and workouts.

When I was engaged I wore that ring all the time except at the gym.

You should insure your ring if you haven’t, if you lose it or if it’s stolen than you can get a replacement.

Thanks! I tried to tell my fiancé to insure it, but he shrugged and said he would just buy another if I lost it 🫠

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