not sure if I’m overthinking, etc or how to handle? I (young,F, assoc) work with older male partner. Over the years, he’s started to say I love you, calls me dear/honey/baby, says suggestive/sexual things/inquiries about my dating life. Given how long we’ve worked together, have a close personal relationship and now I’m worried if this is escalating. He is good to me, gives me special treatment, invites me to client stuff, pushing to make me partner, protects me and my wlb is better than most.

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He is a big rainmaker so i always thought it was good to tie myself to him and I know he has always had a soft spot for me (same schools, we clicked) and now im concerned something inappropriate/uncomfortable could be happening. What do I do?

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