Okay, this is a real problem. Why is it that all the women I am attracted to are not into women? I moved from NYC to Chicago last year, and I don't know if that has anything to do with this but it almost feels like it's never been harder to find a pretty woman who isn't straight. Where should I be looking? I'm done with dating apps for a while so I'll skip that suggestion for now.

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Feels like you have some internalized homophobia. There are tons of pretty gay women but they aren’t some monolithic thing you can generalize. Apps exist to centralize.

This post is giving “””but I’m a nice guy””” incel vibes.

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🤔 how old are you?

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29

It's not you.

It's Chicago?

You've gotta get out to more "gay" spaces. We're out there, and trust me, there are some BADDIES looking for girls, but it's a lot about the space you find yourself in. A lot of gay girls on the prowl know to stay in the gay spaces, because it's that, or get some "Chad" spending his time trying to rizz up the girl wearing way too many rings on one hand to be straight.

I feel as though I'm viewed that very way. I believe myself to be attractive, however with eye contact and even as far as being confident enough to walk up to another woman and strike up a conversation I get a weird look or rude behavior. I'm not sure what's going on. Maybe it's just me .

No one dates anymore and people definitely don't want to get to know one another. Too much bullshit going around, too much drama. It's a wonder why the good one's are single.

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