Thinking of all the people I have open up to and been vulnerable with who are no longer a part of my life so now they just walk on this earth knowing extremely personal and intimate details about me and there’s nothing I can do about it ?

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Umm, did you mean to post with your real name & picture?

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I’ve totally been there, especially after dating on online apps for so many years. It’s such a weird, unsettling feeling knowing people out there carry pieces of you that you can’t take back. But I try to remind myself that my openness is a strength, even if those relationships didn’t work out. I think this is just something that you have to put out of your mind

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I sometimes think of a line from a Lucinda Williams song: "Don't tell anybody the secrets that I told you." For the most part I think people are cool that way. I know things about people I wouldn't talk about, and I think the people I've been involved with feel the same. Of course, that has something to do with being with good people in the first place.

It’s ok Jessey! There’s not much you can do about the past but consider not sharing those extremely personal things going forward maybe except with family or just come to terms with the fact that that’s how life is and I’m sure you know uncomfortable things about them too.

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