Thoughts on matrimonial sites?
It as a last resort kind of thing for me 😓

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If you’re on the east coast I’d love to connect! (31M here) 😅 The matrimonial websites haven’t been working for me too - the organic (meeting) component is really important for me - but with the expectations that this is for the long run.

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How old are you

Almost 29

Nothing wrong with it.

I personally lean towards organic bc everyone can showcase what they want people to see and then turn when they get what they want.
It’s a lot harder to do that in an organic situation as opposed to matrimonial sites/expedited process.

But then again, I’m still single so what do I know lmao

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Seems like a unisex universal problem ! M this side and dealing with the same issue. 😀

Good to know I'm not alone 😓

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