Walked into the week with three inbox flags marked “urgent” from Friday evening. None of them were urgent. February feels like the month where everything is labelled critical. How do you push back on false urgency without looking unhelpful?

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If they were urgent they wouldn’t send them Friday afternoon

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That is such a good point.

Everyone seems to think that everything is an emergency, and it rarely is. I have no problem saying I will get to this when I can, but it is not the top priority. Everyone wants their email moved to the top, sadly.

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I agree. I have started asking people what will happen if this waits 24 to 48 hours. Most of the time, the answer is “nothing.”

Surely if that was urgent it would have been sent Friday morning to be done by end of day, nothing is going to get done end of play Friday that is classed as “urgent”

have noticed that timing says a lot. When something lands late Friday with no follow up, it tells me it is anxiety driven, not operationally urgent.

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