Why is this whole process of wedding and separation is too difficult.why does your spouse not understand their toxicity. I want to get a divorce. But I don't think I can do it because of my son and my mother...more importantly while I hate a lot of things that my wife does, still I can't stop feeling pity for her. Why is this so so complicated overall. Don't know if I have some mental issues really !!

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Have faced the same issue. If its taking a toll on mental health talk to therapist if that doesn’t work divorce is the final option.

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Hi, F here. I have also gone through divorce last year and I know how difficult it is. Sometimes the situations are not in your control and also you have a son so try your best to stay in marriage. If no option and it's impacting your health then only move out.

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I am in similar situation, my wife took my son along with her and started living at her parents house without telling me.
Next day got sms from her, she will stay at her parents place. Our relationship is not good since start, her parents, sibling also support her, even if she is wrong, they just want to coverup. Only fights, she admitted my son in school thier. I called school why they did not informed me, they are trying to shift blame to my wife.
She have a WFH job, she have a house to stay, heard she bought new car.
Her parents never contacted me, her uncle contacted my mother after 9 months, they don't think any fault with her, and told both things, have patchup, also have a divorce.
I don't know how to deal with this situation, I was in contact with her on mails, whatsap, told her for 50-50 custody, since she admitted son to school, so initially start one side travel so that in vacations, long holidays he lives with me and my mother. She refuses, I went to her city but she created drama and I was not able to take my son with me. Now she blocked whatsap as well, all communication are blocked, my mother whenever tries, she don't take her call.
I am not sure how to handle this situation, she is using my son, initially she, her parents tried to pressurise us to accept her by involving my bua. Now they achieved what they wanted, thier daughter is with them, after they die, my son is their to take care of her.
It was their plan since they married. Not sure how to deal with it.
Since you have faced similar situation, and female, if possible give your perspective.

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As a men it's not easy for us to get divorce if it's not mutual. So if it's taking a toll on ur mental health go ahead with mutual, don't think of contested it will ruin ur life even more.
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