30s & 40s Singles

34M, NYC, single, athletic, funny and outgoing! Anyone up for food or drinks sometime and see how it goes? Let’s talk if you’re interested

Hey everyone, I’ve got a serious question — when do you think it’s just the right time to propose to your partner? 👀
I’ve been thinking about it deeply and want to get some honest, mature opinions from you all.

Dr… more

Why do I see a lot of single females who are lawyers on dating sites?

Starting a “solo travelers, keep each other company and banter group” M40 here. Because solo work travel gets boring sometimes. What do we think?

When meeting someone for the first time from a different city, who do you think should travel to the other person’s city first? The man or the woman and why?

Hot take: Dating apps should ban filtered pics.

Is dating in 2025 better or worse than dating in 2023?

This is an animated YouTube video that I just viewed regarding various singles and their stories. It is by Divine Awakened Animation. The title is “Late 20’s? 30’s? 40’s? Still not married?” The focus qu… more

Do guys not get this? Tell me I’m very nice to them and they want to have sex with me is a huge insult. If you are a guy and disagree, please tell me the reason. Thanks

Does anyone hook up at conferences anymore or is that a thing of the past?

I don’t think dating apps have been working great. I would like to try other ways to date some smart educated people. What else can I do?

Who are all going on a date tonight?

Fun little reality check:
• 75% of divorces? initiated by women.
• Only 14% of men clear the 6-foot mark.
• Just 18% of guys crack that $100K salary.
• Meanwhile, 80% of women are chasing the same top 20% of men.
• An… more

Where my 30s ladies at?

Going to shoot my shot here. 👧 Anyone interested to connect and see where things might go? 36/F

Don't you love it when someone matches with you on the app's, insists that it's important to do a quick chat then switch to phone then in person, but then snap judges you on your stance an… more

Has anyone ever tried a match making service before? If so, what were your thoughts?

Any emotionally available men left? When did the dating pool start to consist of jaded men “not yet over my ex”. Then why are you putting yourself out there? Stay home and away from dating if you’re … more

Do you notice early on when someone you’re dating isn’t being authentic to them and is just mirroring your interests just to be closer to you or is that just me?

If you’re a guy in your 40s, which dating app are you on? And how’s it working out for you?

I have received many linkedin requests from people I have never met. These requests are all from successful individuals (Linkedin information). But I think these requests are all fake profiles or impe… more

I’m a 40ys woman who has been divorced for a few years. I’ve been busy with work, but now I finally have some time for myself. I’d like to find someone to share my life with, but it’s been so long sin… more

I am 49/M/recently divorced. Anyone here want to offer advice on how to start dating with kids and life in the way?

Can you just ghost someone out of a serious relationship? Is that too bad?

Is it the fear of loneliness that scares us or is it being alone?

Travel nights are really lonely! 33M. Senior manager was right

A serious girlfriend just started ghosting me after a fight. I want her back but am okay with her moving on too. It’s been a few days but feels long. When should I reach out to have a talk for closure… more

Nights during travel trips are the loneliest. 32F

Saturday: match with girl on app
Sunday: exchange a couple messages
Monday evening: exchange several messages; nice conversation
Tuesday morning: she unmatched; guess I was the only one who thought it was a nice co… more

I recently went out on a few dates and started to doubt my entire choice of career in accounting. Other fields make so much more money.

Damn think I’m back on the market again. What every male friend has told me as a good idea, turns out to be a bad idea after all. I fought to split on first date. I thought him expensive gifts. I wore… more

Men please don’t talk freaky, be freaky but for the love of god hold the talk, specially when you are just getting to know someone. Be interesting, be seductive, be thoughtful and bring the freaky to … more