I’m a 40ys woman who has been divorced for a few years. I’ve been busy with work, but now I finally have some time for myself. I’d like to find someone to share my life with, but it’s been so long since I last dated. Do you have any suggestions on how I should start?

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FaceTime so you don’t waste time and prove the other person is real

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Are you on tixtox

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Start with - what are you looking for. Do you have any preferences, do you have non negotiable, where are you at in life and where does the other person be.
These can help.

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I'm interested

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As an older guy (I'm 49 to be 50 in September) I would make a small list of you are looking for in your potential match, After that, I would go to EHarmony. com I know it's pricey but they will have you find the one your looking for.


Note: I am NO WAY affiliated with them, just trying to provide sound advice

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