I am 49/M/recently divorced. Anyone here want to offer advice on how to start dating with kids and life in the way?

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M here who was in the same situation . Just get out there and start but be intentional with your time especially since you have family and work obligations . Spend time with friends as well from a social perspective . This is very important . To many people just focusing on jumping into another relationship. Good luck

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Ok but this can be the hard part. If you are recently divorced you may not have single guy friends to go out with…

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Be a zaddy and have fun.

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Where are you located? I would go on a date with you. I am similarly situated F, no kids but a lot of other things in the way (mostly work related).

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Lol.. well in all reality I'm a Director, but Fishbowl is behind

Do your kids live with you? Similar situation but mom here and it’s much harder if kids live with you….

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