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It’s wild how some people reduce someone’s worth down to just height. Dating would be so much better if character mattered more. I’m a tall woman, and I’ve never had an issue dating guys shorter than me.
I read through your post and understand what you are trying to say - but your initial wording screams that you are judging a man on his height.
While OP is definitely being harsh, I find it hilarious how fast this got 49 comments. Hit ‘em where it hurts 🤣
Why so harsh? It’s not like he can control his height
Enthusiast
Men pursue women accept or give in. Why don't guys today get this????
Comments not going the way OP intended lmao. Rightly so
Consider most of ppl in the bowl are married but open, not surprised.
Ok so what ? What is the point of your post? What should we do now?
What does the height have to do with being a gentleman and everything you wrote?
All the men who comment on my post : I simply evaluate my date based on how would a man evaluate a woman.
“She is the have fun type” “ she is the wife material” “ she is good for the money”
Don’t even pretend you will treat your date/situation-ship, girlfriend (but not gonna marry her) , exactly same way you will treat you future wife.
I date like how a man would date a woman.
Fair is fair
Yea never thought I would be so glad I m single
Hot take and a hot mess 😭.
If you drafted this to post here I would've told you to remove all references to height ( I understand what you saying but men will not) and lean more into the problem being that he is open to both long and short term relationships and how women won't be able to figure out if that means he's dating with intention or not. Also the perception of not being able to lean either way at 35 and what that says about his character.
And I have 0 expectation for you could possibly comprehend such complex thoughts process.
Not a hot take at all. You sound like a lot of basic women out there.
This is ironic.
I've never taken that Hinge prompt/question as a first date requirement or even idea. I also don't see what the issue with the "Long term relationship, open to short" aspect is.
Being 5'9" I hope that makes me tall enough to comment on this thread.
Such a beautiful explanation.
OP is likely also the person who throws a fit when being asked for her weight but openly shaming short kings.
SD1 meant short boy princess :)
Agree OP is being harsh - however, in reality height is extremely important for guys when it comes to dating. We can be politically correct about it all day, but the real world is harsh af
OP - I think both - but also, reality is harsh.
So?
I wonder how old is op… also her weight?
Sure 😉Happy?
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Whats wrong with a woman knowing what her future man likes?
Where can I find a 5’6” woman? Then maybe this applies.
OP and the men reading, I have seen posts of some among you that pay for sexual services like it's seamless. Debate marriage to women based on their total comp. Other such threads. I have read the replies and would like to note that NO ONE has made the kind of character discections as you have over this post. Modern era is doomed by the double standards you push and I mainly don't engage because it's is of no surprise to me how redpilled the western man has become. Where objectification can only come one way. Look at yourselves for a bit and ask about the contents of your character, if you all are consistent about your behavior. Just a thought