Don't you love it when someone matches with you on the app's, insists that it's important to do a quick chat then switch to phone then in person, but then snap judges you on your stance and unmatches you before you've had a chance to explain.

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Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

whats your stance?

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Legit...I think happens because ppl are looking for near perfect or even perfection

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At least you didn’t invest your time.

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You don’t need to explain yourself to that person, and they showed themselves before they could waste more of your time

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Talk if its important .but shortly

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It worked out in your favor. Trust your process and your boundaries.

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Ignore

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Who cares, move on to the next person

It’s called deal breakers

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