When meeting someone for the first time from a different city, who do you think should travel to the other person’s city first? The man or the woman and why?

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Men always need fo take the initiative.

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Men choose to take the initiative because that choice, is a choice to step into your masculinity, a choice to create an emotionally safe place, for a relationship to really blossom and really it's choice to take back some control of your own life and take the lead for probably the first time, in a long time...

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40 Male Texas willing to fly anywhere for love

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Whoever wants it the most

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Why not meet in the middle if it's plausible? Otherwise, unless the woman knows someone in the area, I agree putting a woman in the position where she could feel unsafe is not good.

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