30s & 40s Singles

Asked out a girl to brunch and told her the location for our first date. She responded with this: “oh I don’t drive that far for a date lol unless you want to pick me up or uber “. Should I run or ju… more

Anyone in denial?

I don’t think I can do serious relationships anymore. I change way too much (in a good way), like location, job responsibility, interests.

Any F in Phoenix?

Anyone in Chicago

Anyone in Los Angeles

Anyone in capetown

Anyone experience and understand “twin flames” love? Describe! TIA! :)

Stop DMing every woman who posts on this page under false pretenses, acting like you're just interested in what she posted/commented. You either want to see if she's a viable dating candidate or eventuall… more

I matched with a woman who initially claimed herself to be 37 on her profile, but later changed her age to 39… I understand why people would do this, but I feel like we are starting off from a lie… ho… more

Are you guys single single? I’m actually situation-ship single and sleeping with an ex I have intention to be with single (he wants to be together). I don’t actively date though. One in a while go on … more

I finally found a guy at supermarket who is totally my type. It’s been a while 🤣

Brown M in late 40s.

What city would be better from a dating perspective? Boston or Nashville?

30s M in NYC/NJ area. DM if you’d like to chat!

Anyone in their early 50s in Minnesota?

I've been single for most of my life. I've been working hard on myself and like to think that I've made a lot of improvements both of my health and in my personality. I still can't see… more

MBA student here almost 30 years old, slowly realizing how much of a handicap being autistic is, I avoided dating for so long. I want to date now but honestly have a lot of shame because I never had a… more

Something about women who are 40+ is 🔥
They know what they want and aren't afraid to express it!

Finishing up a whole bottle of wine while watching standup comedy, after nice sauna session.. it’s the best season of the year 🤙

A question for the ladies that use social media or dating apps.
It's getting harder and harder to tell what a woman really looks like anymore. Makeup was fine, but now we have filters that turn y'all into… more

I thought I liked him so much but he gives me the ick in person 😭

🐺💦😈🔥

Any advice on how I can be attractive as an autistic guy, tbh flirting and leading sexually is a struggle for me

32F here looking to get insights on some of the dating apps.

DMs are welcome as long as they don't creep me out. Thanks in advance

Anyone in Chicago?

How many dates do you usually give it to determine if chemistry is there? Went on a first date and enjoyed the conversation/feel there’s potential for connection, but just not feeling that spark.

Divorced M with older kids, so been there, done that.

Have met many wonderful women post divorce. Many ST relationships and 2 somewhat LT (6mo and 9mo).

I haven't given it my all in any of these relationships, and the wome… more

Another bowl I saw which is specifically for people in London, U.K. see you over there peeps. It’s called 30-40s in London, U.K.

Have you ever paid to chat with someone? Was it worth it? Did you feel a connection?

I will be on the apps and I don’t understand why some people think being mean when you first start talking is okay. Playfulness is one thing, but there’s a difference—kindness and curiosity should com… more

Can anyone help me out with an invite to the Date Right App? Please DM!

Coming out of a 10 years, the thought of long term really scares me… but sometimes I am little worried about dying alone…. Or maybe idk 🤷‍♀️

I was in a chat with hinge and they basically told me that the algorithm results show up in standouts based on who you like and your regular feed is basically randomized on your preferences. With stan… more

Men over 30ish with kids: how often do you get rejected by women because you have kids, but they don’t?
Even if they don’t say it, include the times you’re almost certain that was why.

As an alternative until I can find something I can afford, I have considered temporarily moving into an AirB&B nearby after I move out of my boyfriend's house until I get myself together. Ever… more

Where are the D.C. women at ?!?!

Recently heard an ex was not quite over me from trusted sources. I sort of expected it even though the ex and I had not talked for 10 years plus since breakup. He runs a very renowned PE and our pract… more

Anyone been in a long run situation where you like her and she likes you, and you can tell from all the signals, yet nothing happens? What to do? 🤔 BTW I’ve never asked a woman out first IRL as all m… more

Where are the Dallas women at?!?