Divorced M with older kids, so been there, done that.

Have met many wonderful women post divorce. Many ST relationships and 2 somewhat LT (6mo and 9mo).

I haven't given it my all in any of these relationships, and the women saw that and ultimately left.

I'm unable to figure out if me not going all in is cause subconsciously I had doubts OR because I'm scared of commitment and not giving it a chance. I'm generally happy being single, but recognize a partner would be great.

This resonate?

I have a date over dim sum in a few days. Any recs or tips for staying compliant? Really want to stay OP.
So far my options are salt and pepper shrimp, steamed ribs, chicken feet, and broccoli.

Dropped off my kids to school this morning and just felt unsettled. It’s so hard to concentrate on work today.

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

Hello, i m looking into a 7 night cruise but travelling with 1 year old for first time. I want to know if anyone has travelled with an infant before and what you fed them in cruise ? Mostly, i am also worrier about the following: 1. Finding organic milk, 2. Heating food 3. Is it possible to take a small blender and use within cruise ship?

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

Who is excited about first gay kiss in an Indian mainstream movie? (Watch trailers of Shubh Mangal Zyada Saavdhan)
SO looking forward to the controversies it’s going to generate!

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

My sister and I have recently both come to the realization that our parents guilt us into spending time with them or visiting them and the guilt causes us both to shut down. Our dad is the main offender, often reminding us how little time we have left with him, asking us why we’re leaving so soon or reminding us about all the good deeds and sacrifices made. We’ve both noticed this shift in our relationship with our parents after graduating from college and starting our own adult lives. Continued

Pune office lo evaraina flatmate kosam chustunnara ?
M here , dm me if we can take together, i am searching this weeken

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Plan on visiting SFO this August and wanted to check if any F is up for drinks or dinner spend some quality time. Male 34 , tall 5 11, brown and happy to message and set up some time if we find each other interesting.

Gorgeous night, 36/m, anyone want to meet for a drink?

Amy tips on finding a soulmate? tried a lot of matrimonial sites nothing is working because noone can put up with consulting life style 😔

I work in a self contained classroom. A parent of one of my kids wants to come and volunteer after learning all my staff quit. Can I allow her to do this? Admin has no idea and I'm not sure with FERPA laws.. advice, suggestions? What can I have her do if she can come?

I have strong feelings for my friend who also happens to be my superior at work. We also flirt with each other sometimes. I don’t know what to do.

I get so frustrated and annoyed when people make stupid common sense mistakes and I think it’s starting to affect my relationships. Don’t really know what to do.

Hi Fishes, I got an offer for Data analyst - SE at Samsung Research Institute Bangalore. There are lots of negative reviews. Is it worth joining with 2 YOE?

How to broach taking time during the day for Ramadan for myself as a junior consultant - on a COVID related engagement so I’m reluctant if it’ll be received well...
Also how much time is okay to ask for?

I currently work in Tech Consulting on the software implementation side with 2 YOE. I don’t see myself long term in this area and am interested in pivoting to strategy and potentially business school along the way. Does anyone have advice for the best way to prepare and land a role for someone who doesn’t have a strong strategy background?

Has anyone quit without backup offer? Did you regret doing so?

Hi Fishes I recently came to know about ML-ops which sounds interesting but to direct my career towards it, i would need some help. So if you have any expertise/knowledge in the field of ML ops, guide me. Currently working as team lead in compliance ops.

Hii all,
I am currently having 4 offers:
1. Calsoft - Senior SDET - 17 LPA - ready to offer 24lpa + 1lakh Joining bonus.
2. McAfee - SDET Grade 6 - 23.5 LPA.
3. UST Global - Lead I - 21.5 LPA
4. Atmecs - Senior Automation Engineer - 22LPA

I am currently confused to join which company. Is Calsoft better than McAfee.? Also, is McAfee stable? Is there any firing of employees happened very recently because of organizational changes? Need suggestions. Thanks in advance.

Can we combine our Corporate Amex points with Amex Everyday MR points?

Looking for job change Mainframe resources
Exp: 11+
Current location:Pune
Visa : valid H1B unstamped(2.6yrs exhausted)
Notice :90 days
Preferred location: Pune,Nagpur
Any leads will be appreciated,TIA

Hi Fishes, Please help me choose which company to join on the basis of work culture and job security.

TCS -> 20 LPA

Mindtree -> 24.05 LPA

YOE -> 8 years 

Tech Stack -> Frontend (Angular)

CCTC -> 18.10 LPA

Are you guys actually comfortable ordering food? Are you not worried about the bag or bowl/plate being infected?

Started my grad job in consulting and keen on getting a credit card - any advice?

I joined capgemini 15 days back still I did not get any project. Shall I obscand or resign any suggestions please

Hi Fishes,

Is Deloitte India mandatorily asking 2 days hybrid work from office? or it's complete work from home??

At what level do agencies usually start offering relocation packages?

Will Deloitte india revise offer based on the current offer?

I got offer from Deloitte for around 14.5 (fixed + variable) for 4 years of experience in SAP.

But now i have better offer for around 17 LPA.

Is it a good decision to ask Deloitte india for a revision?

What are the chances that they'll revise the offer?

YOE:1
I have just started my journey in Salesforce and I have started working on Salesforce Vlocity. Order management to be specific. I wanted to know what are the opportunities and what kind of job market is there in Salesforce/Vlocity.

Also is it good for learning to start off with Vlocity/Order Management right off cause it is a bit confusing for me.

Some guidance would be useful

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Plan on visiting SFO this August and wanted to check if any F is up for drinks or dinner spend some quality time. Male 34 , tall 5 11, brown and happy to message and set up some time if we find each other interesting.

What’s the A/S/L of Fs in here? Better yet, any Fs in the Charlotte/NC area in here?

Anybody awake and want to chat? 35M here!

Male.35. 5’3. I go to the gym regularly. Any advice on improving my chances on dating apps and real life from the ladies.

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

Early 30s, Female, Texas. Indian Ethnicity. HMU!

35 F🐟, Boston, 🙋

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Saturday night and I’m Netflixing (for the last 15+ Saturdays). For the love of everything, let next year be normal again!!

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

Any houston folks here?

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

Ladies would you take dinner and shoes from me?

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

I love how everyone on here is all “I’m a tall, fit, attractive as hell person with a great career looking to have some fun.”

Just once I want to see someone say “Grotesque unemployed mutant with gingivitis and a teenage son who sells pipe bombs on the dark web looking for love.”

Any female fish in Downtown SFO, want to grab a drink and bite? 30M here

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

Would you pay for a match making service that would be based upon video profiles instead of written profiles? I have not seen this concept created yet.