A question for the ladies that use social media or dating apps.
It's getting harder and harder to tell what a woman really looks like anymore. Makeup was fine, but now we have filters that turn y'all into models in some cases.
Here's my question. Is it fair for us guys to use these filters on our insta, fb, dating apps as well. How would you respond when he picks you up for the first date and looks nothing like the fake picture you know him as.

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I personally FaceTime someone before actually going on a date with them. Catfishing is way too common.

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I see plenty of guys who use filters as well that make them look very different than real life lol. You can usually tell what’s a filter and what’s not. If you’re concerned, do a video chat via the app before you meet

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