Any advice on how I can be attractive as an autistic guy, tbh flirting and leading sexually is a struggle for me

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be yourself. or even go on practice dates with close friends.

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I honestly adore many autistic men. My brother in law is autistic and I feel in love with someone who was many years ago. I would focus on the basics we all need to focus on: hygiene, fitness, style, how you carry yourself and as far as flirting is concerned, try just talking to women and being nice. Overtime, if one starts to like you, they'll come to you. As far as leading sexually, they should be showing a lot of interest in seeing you and talking with you. After a few to several days, you should be more comfortable making a move.

But if you feel like you're having trouble reading social cues, there are specialists who coach on this and therapists who do too. It can take some time to find a good one but that's probably the fastest path to growth since they understand how to communicate and teach things in a way that'll make it easiest for you to learn and implement.

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Being upfront and honest about being autistic is a great way to make sure people know this about you. It will weed out the folks who aren’t for you and attract the ones that are. Just be yourself, the right person will like you just as you are.

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Men are very visual creatures. It's shallow, but we judge a woman primarily on her looks, then we learn about her personality and whatnot which makes her even more attractive. Women are kinda the same, but you could be an ugly mfer but if you're genuine, kind, can make her laugh and make her feel safe and wanted, you're the most handsome man in the room to her.

I guess what I'm saying is just be a good person, learn some funny pick up lines, and don't be afraid to approach them. They can sense insecurity a mile away. What you have to do is trick yourself into thinking youre hot shit. Try not to care about what other people say it think of you. Stay out of your head. Don't overthink everything. They're just another human like u. They shit and wipe their ass like you. I think guys put women on these pedestals. We make them out to be these beautiful, magical creatures, but they're just a person. No offense ladies.

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