Are any gay men chasing real love anymore?

Or have we replaced it with anonymous sex, climbing the corporate ladder, and trying to live the “fabulous life?”

I just want real love - it’s all I’ve ever wanted. I’m caring less and less about all this other stuff.

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I'm not interested in sex or a fabulous life. Just mundane pleasantness with a partner and relative financial security.

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Awwwww I hope you find the true love that you desire OP

I want real love.

But the problem is the men go on dates with don’t even have a fraction of what I have to offer; career, looks, personality. I refuse to settle for that and think there are many who are in the same boat.

Anyways I’m a Korean American and I’m really amazed with the way you sound but all I can say is that you should put your feelings first and then find a way to help your partner also and if you find it hard to convince your partner to get better with his life then you can leave him but if you have the mindset of not allowing anyone base on class or career, I’m sorry to say you’ll end up choosing the wrong people

I guess you keep meeting the wrong people
There are lots of single people everywhere
I feel you chasing after closer rather than love

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