Two men in mid 30’s, been dating for 3 years, official for 2,5. Monogamous. Talked about moving in together, and feel safe with each other , but not said ”I love you”. Is this strange?

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Yes? Feels like it

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every couple likes alone time. That's normal. You should ask yourself how much you would miss this person if they died tomorrow. And if you think you would want them to know that then you need to say what you need to say before they can't hear it. It’s hard not to take people for granted but relationships take work. And they take work every day. And sometimes people need to hear those things a little more often than never. Especially on the bad days. Maybe you haven’t hit those yet. But start banking those words now because everybody needs those. Together with my hubby for 15+ years. you got this good luck.

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Sounds like it’s worth having a conversation and communicating.

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Yes. Even stranger is not living together after 3 years of dating.

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We spend 80% of the time together, but also nice to have own place for a day or two of alone-time. Financially we are both doing great so no need to live together for that sake

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Yes it is *very* strange IMO, however that doesn’t mean that you guys don’t actually love each other. Why haven’t either of you said it?

Dunno, I have felt it, and haven’t felt the need to verbalize it, I guess.

Not even in the heat of passion?

Ahhh.. thats an important detail. Some cultures and languages have difficulty expressing affection and love while others are more open to it.

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