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What do people who date in NYC want there days?

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I'm officially off the apps and have planned a bunch of events, volunteer work and travel. Not to meet someone; just to more fully enjoy my life and reregulate after 3 years of looking at scary profiles and h… more

likeuplifting

Recently divorced, no kids—thinking about selling my furniture so that I can handle the move on my own. Moving costs are really adding up. Any advice or experiences to share?

Any singles in NJ wanting to go for a drink? M28

Is there anyone left on this, any single males please drop your A/L.

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What’s everyone’s drink of choice these days?

Did all the ladies in this bowl get married? It’s been quiet.

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Any middle aged single men? 54 yo woman here 45 and above is ok

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What would you do if your friends think your boyfriend is weird / not attractive and you can do better even if he’s wonderful to you? They think he’s perfectly nice, but not like anyone I’ve dated bef… more

What’s the best place to meet attractive people in the city? Not a fan of dating apps but wanna be social and get out there with no real experience.

I’m looking for a man in finance…😊

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Are apps dead for you right now? Been pretty bad for me since April. Wondering if it’s just me.

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Now that it’s getting nice outside, should we plan a meetup? Was thinking maybe in some park on a weekend.

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I know I'm going to catch shade for this cus there's so much debate about paying for dating apps, but do NOT do the lifetime Bumble subscription. The second I did, I went from dozens of likes … more

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So has anyone had success and actually met here?

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Are there any ladies here?

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Maybe trying to start a little traction/communication. 36 m UES, feel free to add your a/s/l!

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41F no kids. Prefer to date ages 38 to 42 males with no kids. I am currently in NJ, but looking to relocate to NYC.

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Does this city really suck this bad for dating or am I just un-datable? I'm seriously considering moving so I can have a life. I have 3-5 date offers a week. Majority of them are 'nos' for… more

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Has it really been 4 weeks since the last post? Has anyone hooked up or found love since then? Or should we just close down?

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I’m not sure how to engage on this bowl but, if anyone wants to reach out :) 29/F/nyc

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25M; any females in town want to grab a drink tonight?

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Why is this bowl dead, especially before the holidays…..

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Looking for a female workout partner in NYC , cheers

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Question for males here - do you think it’s a turn off if a woman expresses dating with intention early on in dating? 32F just got out of a year long relationship and can’t do another failed relations… more

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Heard there's a singles consulting bowl. Can't seem to find it, can someone invite, thanks

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Any males here over 40, mature, no kids, looking for serious relationship. I m fed up of dating apps. I m 41 F

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I just can’t compete anymore. I’m always last choice and my heart hurts.

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Anyone feel like they can’t go over a breakup / person and it’s haunting them all these months / years later and they’re self-sabotaging any new relationships

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Any single events happening in NYC?

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Any single men open to chatting and having a good conversation? For context, I’m 31 and a female. I used to live in NYC but moved to San Diego. I do go back to NYC often though. Feel free to hit me up… more

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should we all pick a time and place one night and everyone show up?

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Hi All, 39 M looking for a female for a sexy chat ! All ages welcome ! Ciao

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Where do you go to meet people IRL? 29 F

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Hello! Recently moved to NYC. 33M Asian. Don’t want to use dating app, because I used to work in Tinder product strategy. Any F happy to chat here?

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Anyone Fs up to chat? 27 M

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Is dating in NYC dead?

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Can women on the apps please weigh in/explain this one? This has happened so many times I’ve lost count.

Match with a woman on a dating app. She either ignores messages right off the bat or ghosts after we’ve cha… more

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