What do people who date in NYC want there days?

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We have all decided collectively that we want sushi.

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Any good recommendations?

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World domination.

With a partner.

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Yes I’d love to dominate the world with someone but she’d have to play the bad cop and take their money and their soul for us. But she’d be perfect for me.

Someone who's close to my equal. I don't want someone who's substantially worse off than I am in any of the important verticals. No one does.

I see men's biggest issues as: income/ambition, effort with looks and style and emotional intelligence. Improving any one of those increases the pool of people interested. If you're weak in one, showcase another. Those are all things women tend to work on if they don't have them and men just don't and sit there and complain that women only what the top 10%. Ok, so why not shift this bell curve so your/more people are in the top 10% or as close to as is possible with effort?? Effort is super attractive! Instead, they want to sit around and complain and not think about what they can do and how to do it to improve as a potential partner.

80% of men I see on apps are the bottom 20% swiping away instead of going to the gym, fixing their teeth, taking care of their hair, finding a good style for themselves or taking nice photos. It blows my mind.

Thank you for saying what’s true. Games suck but reality is hard - but can be amazing if it’s genuine and true.

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These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

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Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

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Men 🐟: Is the unwritten rule of urban spacing dead?! Too many guys ponying up nice and close lately. Ladies, do you have any similar unwritten rules of the bathroom?

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I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

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Lazy Sunday. Any female fish like to chat?

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May not be the right bowl but I need insights. Guy likes me and vice versa, was over at my place helping with something, had a huge erection but said or did nothing. I can’t figure out why..

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Running behind on a date, tried to originally reschedule but he insisted, said I was on a call and instead of 5:30 could meet at 6:30 and at 6:15 he checked in, I said 20 more and then he cancelled...

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I lived in tampa in my early 20s and am now in my late 30s and looking to move back. One of the reason I left is because I felt I had too much energy for the city for a single young professional, but now husband is from there and we have a kid but we are both social people. Do you guys find it easy to meet interesting people and has the city gotten any more fun?

Hi there!!

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I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

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Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

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Any single female fish is this bowl enjoy dating men In their late 30s

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Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

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Anyone from Los Angeles here? And any luck with dating in the LA area?

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Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

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Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

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When you’re on a date, how do you explain your job?

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Hi i am 28m, staying in a PG at gachibowli, any females for a casual meet and talk on weekends, plz respond

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Realization: I'm good at my job because I'm single

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I went on ONE date with a guy that lives next door months ago. He told me he eats out every night and tips his doordahers poorly. That was a red flag, so I never talked to him again. Anyhoo, I bumped into him tonight, and he cussed me out so bad at a CVS. I’m confused as to what I did wrong?

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Are any American consultants working in the middle east? Currently, trying to make the transition myself! Grew up in America, but my whole families from the middle east, so I want to do it for a couple of years.

How would I go about this process? Should I join a firm first, then make the transition?

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How many days does Michelin usually take to release offer letter? I had salary discussion with HR on May 13th, 2022.

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Wish me luck: I just took a job at a new agency in which I'll get paid double as the creative director for a team of 30 people. I'm ecstatic, this is my dream!

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Had two rounds of interviews for an in house role and really like the company/job. I followed up Friday regarding next steps and was told they are still interviewing and should be wrapping up soon. Advice on how to stay calm? I want the position and need to know if there’s a way to speed up the process.

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Anyone have insight into in-house roles at an insurance company?

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Tips on looking for a remote position in the communications, Public relations, or marketing field? Everything I find seems to be a scam, way underpaid, or a 100% commission based role.

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New to Toronto, moved to the west end of town/ just past - in Etobicoke. I celebrate my 40th a few days after NYE/NYD - would love some recommendations on moderately priced but nice ambiance restaurants for myself + husband, and my extended family. Everyone is scattered throughout (Hamilton, Barrie, Lyle, Newmarket, North York). Don’t want anything too fancy but don’t really know where or what is good and not downtown.


Any recommendations? (Open to GTA of course).

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Hey 👋 just joined here and my second post . I started my construction business now for over two years working on residential renovations and looking to make the jump to commercial construction! Looking for a mentor who is knowledgeable of Commercial construction and can help me understand the ins and outs of the industry here in San Diego. Please reach out if you’re in commercial industry and would like to help. Would be greatly appreciated 🙏🏻

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Who here has actually made a genuine connection from being in this group? Let’s hear your stories 🍵

What are some of the perks you get as a SC @EY or @D? Work phone, food vouchers, gifts, cringe benefits from SM/Ps etc..

Asking for a friend who's is deciding between these two companies and coming from industry!

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Currently at Deloitte and considering leaving. Is it worth jumping from one Big4 to another? Seems like getting into Industry is not working out.

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Heyy Fishers,

I am looking for an opportunity in the Consulting Field and keeping an open mind as I am too keen to work on projects and solve problems.

I have 8 months experience in strategic and risk role in banking and want to expand my domain knowledge of other industries

If anyone can refer me it would be greatful!!

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Did anyone get interviewed for enterprise architect position at Collibra. Would like to know the experience and the process.

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Messed up a document production. What now?

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Anyone here going/gone to Harvard? Curious to know how tough Harvard (mainly MBA) is with ADHD?

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Hey there!

So that’s the first time I am in a role where I am trusted to chose platforms and services to use, and I am overwhelmed!
I work for a B2B company, and am searching for a platform where I can monitor seo, and manage social media primarily.
I’m obviously looking at hubspot but what other platforms (combined of individual) do you like most?

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Does anyone work at Airgas or have experience with this company (not available on Fishbowl)?

Curious how MBB's cybercapabilities are viewed within the cyber world. Experiences, thoughts?

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Hi all,
I am tech guy with almost 3yr exp, but I want to switch to a Management role. Going for an MBA is not possible for me. I was wondering about the possibility to switch to a management role within the next 2 years without an MBA. Company/Brand is not a bar for me.
Can somebody please suggest how to do this?

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Who's free tn and wants to mingle? 26/m

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Lazy Sunday. Any female fish like to chat?

Single 30M working at a tech firm.
I would love to buy shoes for a few ladies

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Damn! Why's it so silent in here 😅 35M NYC

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Any single female fish is this bowl enjoy dating men In their late 30s

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Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

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35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

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Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

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Hello! Any single men would like to chat? If you’re engaging, not a weirdo, and can a hold convo, you can slide into my dm’s. 30/f/nyc 😋

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Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

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