I know I'm going to catch shade for this cus there's so much debate about paying for dating apps, but do NOT do the lifetime Bumble subscription. The second I did, I went from dozens of likes a week to only a few a month and suddenly there was no one 30-40 to swipe on in NYC. I see like 3 profiles every few days now. They got my money and have no incentive anymore.

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That happened to me too! But then the revamp happened and the matches got back to normal

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Ohhh good!!!!

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And I mean literally the second I upgraded everyone was gone.

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