Is dating in NYC dead?

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

So this dude asked me late last night if I wanted to call him and said he needed someone to talk to while working late..told me to let him know if I had a guy over then he’ll talk to someone else. I didn’t have a guy over and not that kind of person so why assume that? It pisses me off.

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

35F divorced with a kid. I think I will never get remarried or in a serious relationship again. Lots of men don't like dating women with children. At my age either the guys are past their prime, divorced/ing and have to provide half their income to their first wife. Many with kids live on the same street as their ex wives so they can be close to their child. I'm not comfortable dating guys like that. On the flip side there are the ones that were never married, which by this age cont

Do you think it is easier to overcome cheating in a relationship that has or does not have children involved? Listening to an interesting podcast and would love to know peoples take on the topic

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

Seems like there’s a few 30+ females in this bowl. Lmk if you are ever down for a brunch or dinner. I could use some gal pals 💃🏻

Where do you stay up to date in the best ideas from the industry?

35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

30M, Fit, Indian, I am here to avoid arranged marriage and I don’t like dating apps :)

Had a second date planned for tonight, she text me this morning and has a high fever! Should I send a care package?

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Running behind on a date, tried to originally reschedule but he insisted, said I was on a call and instead of 5:30 could meet at 6:30 and at 6:15 he checked in, I said 20 more and then he cancelled...

My confession is I had some ‘fun time’ with myself two times today.

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Poll: What dress code do you follow at your home office?

How is the SAP practice at Bosch limited ?

Does anyone have any recommendations for where to get a made to measure suit in Dubai? Would need to keep prices below 5k for a 2 piece.

What is annual hike in ey gds in risk advisory senior role

What clients does Nagarro have? Indian? US? European? Spreaded accross the world?

Is anyone expecting agency layoffs at the moment?

I had a break up and it was me who messed up. I blame myself all day and constantly have dreams of her. It’s been few months. I try to smile a lot or stay busy but randomly I cry out loud and burst into tears, I think I’m depressed. I also live alone don’t have a lot of friends and I’m 36. Can you please recommend a good therapist (I know you have to try multiple to find the right one)? And what else can I do to bring my self esteem up. Thank you

I overslept and just woke up 🥲 oops

Trying to learn how to automate work using python. The specific task I wanna do is using information from a different webstie to create zendesk tickets. Any good resources I can use?
Thank you

What funds do people have in their 401k plans? And how did y’all decide allocation? Can’t tell if I should be more aggressive given I’m in my 20s.

Looking from some insight on exit opportunities to tech firms - Amazon, Google, smaller tech firms. I have an engineering background but have mostly worked in finance for close to 10 years. I feel I am lagging in technology to get into these firms. Any recommendations on skills to develop?

Hello Fishes,

I joined CG on 27th July, the first project require me to work on documentation not related to my tech(networking) this I said no and went on bench.
The second project/client they tagged asking me to wrok on FTP L1 Monitoring and t-shoot.
Again this is not relevant to my exp(6 years in Network).

How to get released from this? the upper line is not in touch with me not they responding with update

What options do i have, what if I abscond?

Will they give me exp letter?

Did anybody used virtual card issued from partner after getting your Gartner peer insights review ??

I have an offer for a company abroad. Originally they wanted me to fly out and start the day after Thanksgiving (not celebrated in their country), but because of the holidays I suggested starting in either December or January with the ability to take some holiday days in December to fly back home for Christmas. They then proposed starting out remotely “as soon as possible” in the US as a contractor and then moving abroad to start full time abroad. (Cont)

My contract is close to ending with a verbal offer on table to stay for 30k. I am looking for something more techanical in the engineering field that matched my abilities more. Is it worth the move even if I don't have anything lined up. Personally don't think I can handle job and applying all at same time due to increased anxiety.

Anyone know how to get a position as an HRBP without HRPB experience? All positions I've looked at want previous experience. Would over 5 years of HR experience and a PHR suffice, or what skills should be added to that?

Have people gotten their bonus’ prorated in a year they were on parental leave? Any hunches to tell if it was more less than a straight prorate?

What’s everyone a/s in this bowl?

Who does like a strong espresso?

Hello! Any single men would like to chat? If you’re engaging, not a weirdo, and can a hold convo, you can slide into my dm’s. 30/f/nyc 😋

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Any ladies want to go to happy hour tomorrow? 💁‍♀️ here

What does being a chief in a bowl mean?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

Drinks today near Chelsea/Midtown area? 32 - F
Pls share age/gender

35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

What bars do men in their 30s frequent?

How's everyone doing this weekend?

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

Do people actually meet up from this bowl??

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?