Anyone have a separate “lawyer voice” that comes out when challenged? I have a cutting lawyer voice when necessary and when it comes out it’s very effective. Just had to use it in a meeting and I could tell it shut down opposition and put the person in their place.

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That is a voice I recommend using predominantly more! The thing -I have noticed with people is, you have to be stern and aggressive , or they literally will push till they get their way! Some adults still need ethical training. I swear. Great job 👏👏 Boundaries are recommended.

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Thank you, I think it does need to be more of my default.

Everyone has one. Just don’t use it with your SO.

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Yes, but it’s not just when I’m challenged- mostly when I go into adult mode. My staff loves it, because they know the moment we go from “friends chatting” to “dealing with boss”.

Yes this is it. I started the meeting with a very up beat and optimistic tone, but when it became clear that my guidance was serious, the adult voice came out and that set the tone for what was needed.

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I have that voice at times and I'm not even an attorney! See? working among all you attorneys these many years, rubbed off on me. You're right, that "lawyer's voice" can be very helpful if your reasoning is solid and has the evidence to back it up. No alternative facts here, lol!

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