Anyone have hope to share about finding love in early 40’s? Not here to complain, just want some hope. Been single over 3 years now. I spent this last weekend alone - fri, sat, and sunday nites. The loneliness and lack of affection is crushing. Especially in these turbulent times.

Anyone find themselves apologizing for everything, even stuff other people messed up? If I’m just relaying info and that turns out to be wrong, I still am the one to apologize. Especially if it’s to attorneys or partners. Why do I do this?

Anyone joined top social clubs (i.e. Zero Bond, Norwood, Metropolitan)? Why were you accepted in & did it meet your expectations?

Top Corp Dev teams: Trying to find the “top” (using this as short hand, I know it’s subjective) PE shops had a bunch of resources to use. However, there are no such resources (please share if I’m wrong!) for “top” Corp dev teams. “Top” is probably some mix of caliber of people, comp, ~prestige~, etc. let’s hear y’all’s top Corp dev teams!

Which one is better for a bachelor in bangalore (Manyata) .... PG or flat

Hello everyone, what would be the average annual hike at wellsfargo India?

Best places to shop for dresses to wear to summer weddings?

Can I turn my computer into a different office in my region than my home office? My last day will be a couple days after Christmas and I don’t want to have to go back just to bring my computer back

Hoping for help w/ studying. TRANSACTION CYCLES?? I see inconsistent lists online and in books: (Revenue, Purchasing, Inventory, Payroll) vs (Sales, Purchasing, Payroll, Financing) vs....

Is it just me or all the hot people in advisory? [9th floor]

Any guys in nyc?

Is selling feet pics an unethical side hustle?

What are your current productivity standard?

Shoutout to VA for enduring a tornado so DC could have this incredible weather

I make $100K with 12% bonus and was offered a role $130k with 15-20% bonus. 4YOE in provider industry.

I am in a comfortable spot with a good team but the work is dull, new role would be consulting with more work & travel

I would appreciate pros/cons etc! Thank you.

Hey Fishes,
What’s the default hike % and bonus we get in HSBC if we join in September for GCB Band 5 role?

Compensation estimates for a role like this? Glassdoor estimates $51k. Does that sound accurate for right out of college?

HR coordinator
0-1 YOE
Chicago
Tech
~350 employees

In which all areas jp Morgan is having offices in Bangalore?

How do NYC big law real estate groups hold up during recessions? Are they one of the harder hit corporate groups or is there more stability?

Anyone already quit their job and start traveling? If so, where to?

I recently joined Grindr……. 😵‍💫

After being broken up now for 14 months - I think I still love my ex. We were together 6 years, and never fought. I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. I don’t know why I can’t move on. It’s my birthday weekend and I have plans all weekend, but can’t stop thinking about this. I’ve been out with lots of great guys, but I keep holding on that maybe… one day we will be together again. Then my ex texted me today to let me know he and his new fiancé are moving to (cont. below)…

Any fish in SF

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Why are some people not into feet?

My manager (unknowingly) messaged me on Grindr. What should I do now?

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Best lesbian bars in nyc?

Hi NYC 🌈🐠! Was there interested in today’s happy hour? Let me know!

Does anyone have experience or advice on being a stepdad? My bf has a 6 year old (whom I adore) and I want to be as good a stepdad as I can be without overstepping any boundaries. Any advice is welcome!

I know this is very stereotypical to ask here, but did anyone watch the latest episode of White Lotus? DM me! My friends are watching it tomorrow and I need to get my thoughts out!!!!!

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

For those that use Grindr, has their Kindr campaign had any real impact on how you use the app/messages and matches you get?

Any ladies at DU this week?

Happy Pride everyone

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?