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Has unemployment ever affected your confidence? Not just professionally but socially too. Like being around friends or family and feeling a little smaller than you used to. Avoiding certain conversations. I don’t know if it’s just me, but sometimes it feels like unemployment chips away parts of your confidence you never expected. Has anyone else experienced this?

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I admit it did at first. When I quit my good job years ago, I thought "I have a degree, I can get anything!". However that wasnn't the case, and I settled for a lower paying job (that I liked), until I was laid off. Then I thought I could bounce back, because I normally was no more than 3 weeks without work, but that wasn't the case. I admit that was a blow to my confidence, but am just trying to make due with freelance.

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I wouldn't be able to tell. My family is toxic anyway and doesn't see me as a competent adult , despite all evidence to the contrary

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Thanks. I try, but being jobless now is getting to me

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Yes I do because although I am actively seeking employment and I am working so hard to find something I do feel discouraged at times. Especially rejection emails for jobs I've applied for that I've never been interviewed for. It's not easy waking up in the morning knowing full well that you don't have a job to go to everyday where you're earning your own money. I'm trying to put food on my table and I'm also trying to avoid ending being homeless and living on the streets

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I am the only one in my friend group who is unemployed right now so I am the odd man out when it comes to the "how's work?" conversations that happen over drinks. It's definitely something that I try not to emphasize and tend to stay quiet until the work venting part of the evening is over. :)

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Hey guys I lost my job around feb this year and I’ve been constantly putting out apps and I get nothing back tried of course to stay a float. I’ve done side jobs as a self contractor but for some reason it’s been affecting me mentally and how I am with family and friends.. I worked as a landscaper, self contractor, construction building total wireless stores and can’t find work that’s steady or a place that you get treated like a human …

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