Currently on website time and secured an offer with Firm 1 in December. Have come to find out said firm/group is toxic (4/9 associates and counsel that were in the group in December have lateraled). I have lined up another offer with Firm 2 but conflicts won’t clear before my start date with Firm 1. Do I take the risk and reneg on Firm 1 now before conflicts clears with Firm 2 or do I ask to push my start date and then reneg once conflicts clears with Firm 2? Both are v10 firms.

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You're burning the bridge with 1 either way. May as well push the start date as a CYA.

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That’s even better!

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Just want to say you are amazing…

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Nah I’m an idiot for creating this situation but I only do things the hard way

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Are you sure firm 2 isn’t toxic?

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One yes and the others are in related transactional groups

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Looks like you have best of both worlds here. 😂

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How do you know Firm 1 is toxic? Asking because we just had a contingent of associates leave to follow a partner who took a large client with them. Think it was less a reflection of the culture and more about going where they personally saw a better opportunity. Not saying 2 things can't be true, but I'd hesitate to read too much into departures at face value since people leave for all sorts of reasons.

@OP not surprised
Honestly I believe what people vote for their feet over what they say. No one leaves when they have an especially compelling reason to stay, when people leave it is for a reason. Do not join that firm.

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