Excepting for ghosting, what should I do if I don’t feel the guy is the right one but he enjoys the first date very much and wants a 2nd date?

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Stop thinking about what he wants. What do YOU want??? You can let him off the hook gently.
I always had decent success with this:
Hey, I really enjoyed getting to know/meet you. I had a lovely evening, so I want to thank you for your time. Unfortunately I just didn't feel the spark I'm looking for though so I want to wish you the best. I hope you find someone really good! 🙂

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Hit him with the "It was great meeting you, but I didn't really feel a spark", etc. etc. Saying there's no spark is the most vague way of letting someone know you're not interested these days lol

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Overthinking too much. Most guys will just accept "thanks but I'm not interested" we are 100% use to rejection, 99% of dates are just girls who want free food or movies anyways. Nothing personal, just say you aren't there and he will move onto something better.

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Great ChatGPT use case right here

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So you enjoyed the date, and want more fun? What wrong with that?

Read again. I didn’t but the guy did.

Are you asking how to let him down gently? Or whether you should nevertheless go on a second date with him?

Yes let him down gently.

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