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Stop thinking about what he wants. What do YOU want??? You can let him off the hook gently.
I always had decent success with this:
Hey, I really enjoyed getting to know/meet you. I had a lovely evening, so I want to thank you for your time. Unfortunately I just didn't feel the spark I'm looking for though so I want to wish you the best. I hope you find someone really good! 🙂
Hit him with the "It was great meeting you, but I didn't really feel a spark", etc. etc. Saying there's no spark is the most vague way of letting someone know you're not interested these days lol
Overthinking too much. Most guys will just accept "thanks but I'm not interested" we are 100% use to rejection, 99% of dates are just girls who want free food or movies anyways. Nothing personal, just say you aren't there and he will move onto something better.
Great ChatGPT use case right here
So you enjoyed the date, and want more fun? What wrong with that?
Read again. I didn’t but the guy did.
Are you asking how to let him down gently? Or whether you should nevertheless go on a second date with him?
Yes let him down gently.