It’s been 3 years since I (27F) moved to Seattle and still don’t have a solid social circle. Not necessarily a big group… I’m talking 3-4 friends who are easy going and not flakey/ hard to make plans with.

Idk if it’s due to Covid, Seattle freeze, a combination of the two or other factors. Any transplants out there who are NOT the outdoorsy type and feel the same? And if so, how did you get past it?

Why doesn't my wife get that it's just me and the great dane now. She making this awkward wanting some room in the bed.

not alcohol/drugs related but more so to do with p*rn addiction. i have struggled for years with this and I am currently making a lot of progress. I started to make real progress once I started telling people (fiance, counsellor, pastor, etc).

I really don't think it should just be considered a religious thing since it effects the brain a lot and can obviously hurt your relationship. Wanted to see if others also struggle with this and are open to sharing.

As holidays come around, the family has upped their questions about when we are having kids and why we haven’t yet. Doesn’t help that my sibling with one other kid just announced her second pregnancy. Definitely happy for her, but don’t feel like I need to explain to the whole family that we are struggling.

Is there any medical fitness certificate needed before joining Capgemini or any such recent rules?

Anyone else find themselves getting extremely stressed at work during pregnancy? It’s like my emotions are just off and I get so stressed so easily. I want to be calm for baby but it’s hard to not get worked up!

What's next after healthcare for you all?

Has anyone had a nurse state the assumed sex at 12 week ultrasound? The nurse is fairly sure it's a boy, and I'm wondering how accurate her guess is based on a close look of the genitals. Confirmation won't happen until 20 week appt, too far away!

We are adding Ganirelix to our routine tonight - I’m pretty scared as the doctor said it can hurt even more than the menopur. 😱 Can anyone validate??

Has anyone on here suffered with scalp psoriasis and had success treating it? I've struggled with it for a few years, and I found that the last few months it has just gotten horrible. My scalp will start flaking the day after I wash it and I can visibly see large flakes in my hair - and I'm sure other people can too. It's getting embarassing and not sure what to do other than medication which I've heard can cause hair loss. I've tried ACV rinses and tea tree oil, but no real results.

Love my boyfriend but embarrassed by him when he gets drunk... he always seems to be the drunkest person at happy hour when we go out w friends/starts slurring/eyes aren’t as focused. cant tell if I’m the one that’s being restrictive — does anyone else feel this way w their partner?

Is anyone spending an abundant amount of time evaluating and tracking quarantine cases, attending internal Covid updates and other tasks associated with Covid at work ?

Y’all I just need to vent real quick as my husband is gone for the week several time zones away and I’m alone. This late second trimester heartburn is unreal! I’ve never really had heartburn before but holy shit! I find myself pacing and feeling sick to my stomach because of it, unable to focus on anything else, and then I’m drained because all my energy is spent focusing on just this pain. Hoooo 😵 10/10 do not recommend

With the vaccine rollout in the U.S, what’s your timeline on moving back to the city and/or going back to work in the office?

I got admitted to hospital since I was unwell. How can I apply for cashless medical claims as I downloaded one form from general medical insurance plan. Can someone suggest me

Hi! Does anyone have experience training from a beginner to running a 5K?

I’m a pretty out of shape beginner, 24F, looking to run a 5K in February but not sure if that’s enough time.

I have an indoor treadmill to practice on but don’t feel safe running outside around my apartment, thanks.

Trying to decide on the HDHP Health Insurance. Basic vs. Premium. Benefits says the two are equivalent in coverage except three differences - deductible $3K premium vs $3.5k basic, no monthly payment for basic and no $2K company contribution for basic HDHP. What am I missing here. Why would t one not go for basic as you are ahead by about $1K. Any explanations or thoughts?

Anyone have experience with health insurance saying they’ll cover a surgery and then they don’t? Just got hit with a $50K bill

Is it just me or does anyone else know or have an inclination that their employer committed fraud after receiving PPP loans during COVID pandemic?

Is Estate taxes usually significantly tested on REG? Just wondering since it’s going to get eliminated for exams post July 2021

Can Mck fish please advise on the role of a sponsor? How is different from role of mentor? TIA

After I eat sehri, I just want to lay down while my stomach looks like a mountain. Then I become so lazy to get up for fajr. Shaitan is locked up, it feels like I’m the shaitan, don’t wanna get up ...

Got an opportunity at a boutique firm. I’m a 2nd year in big law and never moved before. What are the pros and cons of leaving Big Law to go boutique? What should I be aware of before saying yes?

What is a fair salary for someone who has 3yrs case management, hospital experience, and a LMSW? I’m getting a lot of low ball offers, and feel like I deserve more between the 60-65 salary range.

Hi team, Cgi is hiring for below skillsets: Senior java developer ( Java 8,11, spring boot, Cassandra, MQ, TSQL and cache )

Java and unix

Automation Test lead

Informatica, ETL, SQL

IOS, Swift, objective C

LDAP OSB, SQl

Forgerock IG product

Please dm me if you are interest in any of the above positions.

I work with someone who always makes subtle digs at my code. Like they’ll say good job… and then they’ll say there’s space to refactor/improve code quality and we can handle that later. I get that you can always improve code but it’s so irritating. Any advice?

I resigned yesterday evening.. today morning conversation with counselor and People Consultant went very cold... anyways piece out..

Would love ideas for meeting people outdoors. Looking to connect with locals, as long as it does not involve eating indoors. 😂 This area was so good for connecting a variety of backgrounds coming together from all over. Ideas?

Does anyone have any YouTube suggestions to learn the details of option trading? Or a good resource to learn about them? Apologies if this is out there...I couldn’t seem to find any threads on this

Is Trackitt Down ?

Hi guys
My current ctc is 11.7 fixed. Having 4+ experience. What is the maximum CTC i can ask for. Please help

I believe improving one’s sales conversion rate is something everyone want to improve but no one wants to admit they would like to work it. Funny how lawyers will spend thousands on seminars to improve trial skills. But this topic is not discussed in our profession. I have read books in sales. But am unable to find any for lawyers. I want convert every lead I can. Does anyone have tips, books, cle’s or studied this topic?

I can’t understand, why in the big tech: data scientist = software engineer?!!!!! It is not… and it is huge disappointment when you ask for data scientist who can improve your results that you are not satisfied with, but you design all your technical interview around SE

If there’s anything NYC teaches you most, it’s to be more independent than you already are.

Anyone with document review experience able to give tips on running searches, specifically nextpoint?

Just got back from Ford vs. Ferrari. While it probably won’t be winning any awards, it’s easily the most fun movie I’ve watched in a long while. Highly recommend!

Hello guys, I am a ML Engineer by profession and have recently heard about the AI Centre of Excellence at TCS.

I've that the COE team is supposed to guide TCS employees on client end. However, I've also heard that as they do not generate any profits, TCS moves them to client side as soon as possible.

Could anyone please share some insights about work at the AI COE at TCS? How's the team and how's overall growth in terms of skills and payscale? Are there any drawbacks of joining AI COE?

List your reasons as to why Hulu is better than Netflix:

Hi,

looking for referral for DevOps role.

YOE : 6.9 years, DevOps 3 years

Tech skills: Linux, Jenkins, dockers, kubernetes, automation

LWD is 20th Dec 2022

Anyone ever break a lease due to the bedroom not having a window? Moved from out of state and didn’t get to tour my apartment but thought there was at least an opening somewhere to let in light. Usually illegal so i’m quite shocked.

Planning a move to Bellevue downtown. Does anyone have apartment recommendations for good managed properties ?

What is a reasonable salary for a third year associate at a midsize firm in Seattle doing plaintiffs PI?

What's up with the aggressive driving in Seattle?

Is it just me, or does Seattle not feel as "welcoming" for first-generation immigrants?

Hello guys. I had a phone screening for a clinical laboratory position in Seattle. I’m currently living in Atlanta. Can you guys tell me your thoughts about living there (specifically being a black female, childless)? The culture? Cost of living? Pros and cons? Also I would like some opinions on the salary. The recruiter said the pay would be 82K with a 10K sign on bonus? Is this enough? Thank you in advance 😊😊😊

Where do you all take folks when they come to visit you? I'm still pretty new so after the needle and Starbucks idk where else to go

One month later, I still can't find toilet paper. Any stores that you know restock tp regularly? TIA

Anyone have any headhunter recos in Seattle?
Have any suggestions how a creative breaks into tech?

Anyone who moved from NY/NJ to Seattle? I had some questions about how you feel about your move and transition.

How is Issaquah Highlands? Good neighborhood?

Hi all! Moving in from Dallas. I was wondering if I could get by in Seattle without owning a car?

I don’t have washer or dryer in my new place . I live bear highland park . I want to pay someone to do my laundry . Please recommendations 🆘🆘🆘

Anyone willing to do a meet up? I’m visiting Seattle next week and thinking about moving there. I understand it’s covid, but if anyone is open, I’d love to have a chat. Beers on me!

Going to work at union square, taking bus line 212/554 from 2nd and 4th at Seneca st. Is the bus line/bus stop safe in general? Does anyone take it?

My family and I want to move from Florida to the Seattle area in 5 years. My husband is in Aerospace Engineering. We both love nature, hiking, and rock climbing. We prefer cool rain over sunshine, miss seeing the seasons, and love to cook.
Any advice, Pros VS Cons, anything to look out for ?
Thank you in advance!

Any ideas on the best hikes within an hour or so? Looking for something that has good views but is not too difficult. Just want to get outside when I'm visiting family in the city. I'll have a rental so not afraid of a drive.

New to city, looking for good restaurant recommendations please.

Got a job where I’ll be commuting to downtown via Link (Columbia City). Any concerns I should be prepared for? Or tips for commuting like a pro? It’s my first in-person job in years and as a woman, feeling safe is always a priority for me. TIA!

New to the city.
How do you all get through the constant gray and gloom? Especially with the lockdowns: with gyms closed, and constant drizzle - what outdoor activities do you do?