For sure! I learned to be friendly but don't expect to be friends.

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I'm not sure if this was meant to be a response to something, but I agree with it. That's like my life motto: friendly but not friends. Especially in the workplace, where friendship can turn sour anytime.

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So true and so sad that in today's world, the friends you usually have are gone if you change jobs. Its so shallow! I remember years ago in a sociology class, the professor stating that "The older we get, the harder it is to make real friends".

I feel like I’m missing some context here. But I think being friendly is more than enough in a workplace. Be friendly and professional and keep your work relationships and your friendship separate.

Yeah, that's a hard-earned lesson a lot of us pick up eventually. You can be cordial, collaborative, even enjoy the people you work with, but at the end of the day it's a business arrangement for them and for you. Expecting the company (or even your manager) to treat you like a true friend is usually where the disappointment creeps in, especially when raises are tiny and promotions are nonexistent.

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