Have you ever been praised for being adaptable when what you really needed was stability?
I started to wonder if flexibility was just filling gaps that shouldn’t have existed. Did adaptability help you, or hurt you?

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Learning how to be adaptable is one of the best skills. You also have to recognize when it’s not sustainable, and you can’t keep a footing anywhere. Gaps will come up. It’s just the frequency that signals an issue.

I really like how you framed that, especially the idea of frequency being the signal. Adaptability can be a strength, but when you’re constantly filling gaps, it stops being situational and starts being structural. That’s the line I was trying to understand better.

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Agreed. Has happened to me

Exactly. It’s one of those things you don’t fully recognize until you’ve lived it. Thanks for validating that

Adaptability has hurt me in the past. The flexibility I was offering shouldn’t have been necessary—they should have hired more people instead of leaving us short-staffed. But in the moment, you do what you have to do to keep your head above water.

This resonates a lot. Stepping up in the moment often feels necessary just to keep things afloat, even when it shouldn’t be on your shoulders in the first place. It’s hard to see that clearly while you’re still in survival mode.

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